I know I just asked you guys this, but no one will answer! And there's no one in singles and dating, so you guys will just have to help me!!
Okay, there's this guy I like, but neither of us has ever had a date in our lives. He's a few years older than me and I'm not old enough to date. We don't go to the same school and the only time we see eachother is at church. How do I start a conversation? What are some good subjects? What are some flirty tricks that are guranteed to make him like me? Anything else that I need help with!!! Please help!! Kudos to best answer.
P.S. He's good at singing but doesn't belong to a specific choir, he's really good at piano, and I think he likes basketball.
2007-08-20 05:35:56 · 20 answers · asked by Miz Gorgeous 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Jokes & Riddles
Ask him to come over and “study” the bible with u.
2007-08-20 05:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋
hey!!! sorry about no one answering ur question, that's always annoying!!!
anyway, i know u may like him, but i really advise against dating someone a couple years older than u, especially when ur so young!! i dated a guy who was 3 years older than me, and it was a disaster! what i'm trying 2 say is that, although u may find u have a lot in common, u 2 are on 2 different maturity levels! he may want more than what ur willing 2 give, and because he's older, he might try 2 manipulate u into giving him what he wants, which is low and wrong, but it could happen....sorry 2 underestimate your guy, but i'm starting 2 notice that all guys are kinda the same and have the same things on their mind...
anyway, 2 answer ur flirting question, try talking 2 him about choir, like maybe ask about joining and ask him for info or somthing, and just casually start a conversation! the worst he can do is walk away from u, so go for it! and maybe talk about movies, or what u like 2 do for fun, and just try 2 learn a little more about him! it can't hurt 2 know what he likes and dislikes!
if u need anymore help, u can go 2 www.myjellybean.com and they have a flirting guide on their website!
hope this helped, and good luck! email me if u need anymore help!
2007-08-20 05:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Caity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that eye contact from a girl and a gentle/casual touch does the trick for me.
Being too young to date; plan church group activities such as mini-golf where you can high-five or get a hug for a good shot.
Most women don't realize how clueless guys are in picking up signals. Sometimes or most of the time we need a slap (not literally) up-side the head.
Good Luck!
2007-08-20 05:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by KC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you start flirting with him the very first moment you guys start to know each other, you'll probably guarantee yourself that's the last time he'll be talking to you.
I'm not saying flirting is a bad thing, but flirting with someone you don't even know? It might freak him out. Afterall, he hasn't dated anyone before, maybe that says something about him not being the flirtatious kind?
get to know each other first. How do you make new friends? that's what you should be doing.
2007-08-20 05:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about some of the answers. We are really people who basically are depressed and need a laugh.
Welcome anyway to our area and just pick the nice answers and ignore the others. Good luck...........
2007-08-20 06:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rambooze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about something you both enjoy! Why couldn't this wait until the late afternoon? Some people are just getting up... I woke up 20 minutes ago.. I took this day off :)
2007-08-20 05:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its all about face time. Make him notice you. If he goes to a bible study, join it. Show him your interested but make him question it. If your not allowed to date him you need to figure out what it is you want from him. You don't want him to ask you out if you are going to say no.
2007-08-20 05:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by Kev 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok Ok Ok. Heed my advice because it will work. If you really are Miz Gorgeous then you will have no problem. Next time you see him ask him if he want to get a pizza and screw. That will break the ice. The rest is up to you.
2007-08-20 05:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Richard Cranium 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just think he's a human being so he'd like someone to randomly go talk to him. I wouldn't get flirty right away, as that may scare him...
2007-08-20 05:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand who the two of those adult men are- yet being Indian does not cut back it for me. you're able to be candy, and sensible, and valuable. you're able to teach you at the instant are not enjoying video games. After that, then we will communicate ;)
2016-11-12 23:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by piazza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not old to date, than you don't need to be flirting....please wait for the right time because it is the best time. consertrate on school and listen to your parents they know best. I wish you all the luck in your early years and believe this....there are many more fun days to come for you, so......please don't rush there's time.....lots of it.
2007-08-20 05:45:06 · answer #11 · answered by albt 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋