I am now 21 years old. When I was 18 I was rebellious did what e ver i wanted w/o wondering the consequence. I have a sister who is going into the 7th grade. I brought her to a thing they have at her school. You go to meet your teachers before your first day of school. When i went to pick her up she said a teacher was asking if i was related to you (me) and i said who was it. And she told me the teachers name. When I was 18 i went by the middle school to get letters of reccommendation for college. And lets just say thats not all i got. We ended up getting involved romantically as well. Now i'm trying to figure out a way to get my sister a new teacher w.o. her knowing why.
Now i feel like crap. I've done a lot of bad things and made a lot of bad decisions i'm a better person now but things are still haunting me any advice???
2007-08-20 04:37:26 · 5 answers · asked by Lenababi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's no longer going on. It hasnt since i was 18. She doenst know about it and i'd rather keep it that way. If he was asking about me to her i'm afraid that he'd make her an exception. and it's just a conflict of interest
2007-08-20 04:45:50 · update #1
I don;t think she's in danger but i dont like how he was asking her about me?? Does anyone agree of a reason this would annoy me.
2007-08-20 04:47:22 · update #2
Your sister is a completey different individual from you.
I don't see what the problem is here, except that you are embarrassed or something?
Your sister doesn't have to know everything about you, and i'm sure the teacher in question isn't going to bother her... you were an adult when you had the fling with him.
I don't really see WHY you are trying to get her out of his class?
Do you honestly think that this teacher is going to tell your 7th grade sister about his affair with you? If he has any sense or a grain of dignity, he won't, i'm sure.
2007-08-20 04:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y do you think that this is affecting your sister if she has now started the school. I think you should just wait and see things play out. You are probably concerned that your secrets will be revealed but you shouldn't make such a decision to move your sister without concrete reason. Or is there more to this than you're letting on. if you think your sister may be in 'danger', then I would agree.
2007-08-20 04:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to the principal and be honest...most of my answers end up saying something like that, but lol, I think it's the truth...be honest. Your sister doesn't have to know, but they aren't going to just move her because you asked anyway...but it's a conflict of interest to have your sister in his class...
2007-08-20 04:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it affecting her? in a bad way? maybe you can go to the school and try transfering her to another class, but it'll be hard without a valid explination.
2007-08-20 04:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by DatDrMaHeLuvs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard changing but you know you have to for the sake of you and you lifestyle and the people around you. i say break the relationship off right now, trust me Lena. your sister is going to find out sooner or later and then, you'll have to deal with her too
2007-08-20 04:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋