in relationship but have major crush, please help?

Question

I am with a guy that i have been with for 6 years, but last year i met this guy on myspace, i cheated on my bf and now i still can not quit thinking about the other guy. We still talk and my bf doesnt know, I have 2 kids with him, but i dont really love him. I cant afford financially to leave him, can someone give me some insight into what to do?? I mean the other guy doesnt want a relationship he just wants to sleep together and for sexual reasons.HELP!!!!??

Answer 1

Well frist off accept that you pretty much screwed yourself because you don't know what a geniune relatioship is, and the only person in this world that it would matter right now, you just cheated on, which is a scar on a relationships history that can never be erased, weather he knows are not. Fact remains thou your just like most the other people in this society, were marriages never last because there more or less based on two strangers that just didn't want to be alone, and did what everyone else was doing at the time, namly you hurt yourself here donna, ouch. Not only that but your in two very purposless relationships. One were you pretend, the other were your not pretending how purposeless it is, which both make your future look very, very uncertian. So really your stuck finding a purpose for yourself and those kiddos, and maybe excepting that life was a lot more deep, intense, and hard then you thought it was.... of course you could always try and make a relationship thats worth something with your hubby there by relating your feelings honestly, but then again its proubly to late... another sitistic......