After how long of being single is it hopeless!?

Question

They say men lose some of their feremones after I think 2 weeks, then its more difficult to attract women. What period would you consider borderlines on hopeless weeks, months or years. Do women think its weird if a man has been single for too long?

Answer 1

I really can't pinpoint an exact period where I will classify a guy being weird because he has been single for a while. I realize that people are single for many different reasons. In most cases I assume that the guy either is very particular about who he dates, he has been in a few unsuccessful relationship and he may have gotten hurt or, his expectations are to high so he mat have letting the right woman get away, or he just hasn't found Ms. Right. A man being single for awhile can be a good thing or a bad thing. For example, a man being single for a whie could be all worth while because when a woman does come into your life she doesn't have to compete mentally. emotionally, and physically with a past of your previous women. Nonetheless it could be bad because some men are single because they are closed and afraid of opening up and giving themselves to a nother person. Now if that is the reason why a man is single that is not good and I tend to stay away from men like that. I have met a few men in there early thirties that have been single for a long time and once I get to know them I realize that they are closed and the have problems with opening up. So in reality you have to look at why you are single if you are. If its because your expectation are to high and you don't open up than you might be in a world of trouble. Like the saying goes there is "No Fear in Love". So if apart of you fears love you may need to work on your fears because us woman picks up on stuff like that...and once we detect that we tend to stray awy from a man. I hope I have help you....Good Luck!!!

PS. Don't beat yourself up because it is never to late to get involved. You just have to be sincerely open to love and be willing to accept and give love when the opportunity comes by. and most important you have to be able to recognize and identity a love opportunity...cause truth be told most people only has one or maybe two times at finding love.

Answer 2

To the first part of your question regarding as feremones I believe u meant hormones. A lot depends on age of the male, and more on how sexually active this male is. Men don't lose hormones in a matter of 2wks or months, but rather years of being sexually inactive. Even after years some are still able,... given the right set of circumstances ( being with the right person) That right person ( sole mate) makes all the difference. Even elderly gents can be sexually very capable,.. and this can be after long periods sometimes yrs. of being sexually inactive. The truth is there is no borderlines or hopelessness . The only exception is physical health or just the wrong person that u maybe kidding yourself into thinking is right. Self satisfaction would be easier mentally and physically,.....then being with someone who doesn't fit at least most of the picture,..... for what u know is want u really want ! I am going to say here that in my opinion what is called casual sex,.... just should not be happening,....I think my answers reflect my views on that subject.

Answer 3

I agree with Matt Go out there try something new; take a dancing class or do some volunteering. Do whatever it is you feel like doing and this way you can meet new people without having the pressure of "trying to find someone to be with." Relax and be yourself and I'm sure you'll find people will get to know you as both a friend or even more. Also have a look at the way your behaving. Are you scaring people away with your over confidence or have you now become so unconfident when it comes to men that you putting men off in that way? Keep in your mind way you're coming across and try and see how people react to you because of it. At different points in my life I've scared both potential friends and boyfriends away doing both without even (at the time ) realising it-perhaps you are too! Good luck x

Answer 4

Its never hopeless! Attractions is more then chemical and desire comes from the will to keep going. Dont ever give up I been single for ten years after a 28 year nightmare and believe me, I am not giving up. Relationships begin and end everyday at any age and being alone is never a good thing. Just take each day as it comes and not worry about it.

Answer 5

You don't lose your phermones. Those are yours to keep forever. Not all women think alike so I will give you some leeway---if you are 90 years old and still single, then you are well on your way to being hopeless.

Answer 6

Think positive...have a positive outlook on life, because it's been proved that people with positive outlooks and such have better things happen to them and are happier. When you wake up in the morning say things like "I'm going to meet a nice girl to day!" And honestly believe it ( I know it's hard sometimes, but try it!), even if you don't meet a nice girl think "There's always tomorrow!" Don't lose hope and don't doubt yourself. ( I swear by this way of thinking because it's helped me out a lot in life...I'm a lot better off now than when I doubted my self) ...If you don't believe what I'm saying think of this...which is more attractive a woman who's down in the dumps looks sad and forlorn or a confident woman who believes in her self?...I'm betting the confident woman is more attractive, even if the forlorn woman is physically better looking. Anyway, good luck and I know you can do it!!!

Answer 7

Can't say for others, but I've been single for 3 and a half years now, and I'm kinda hopeless by now...

Answer 8

When I met my husband neither one of us had been in a relationship for a long time. That actually made it better. It was like starting fresh. Just relax and let it happen if it's meant to happen.

Answer 9

I was in a relationship for five years. It ended for 9 months already. Just go to the right places to meet girls. I still have girls looking my way, as long as you're confident and happy people will look your way.

Answer 10

I dont think its weird if you have not been in a relationship. Just as long as you still talk to the opposite sex, show attraction to the opposite sex, and take a girl out once and a while. Really there's no reason to be in a relationship if your heart is not in it! Your fine baby, dont worry.