I want to know if I am being a Bridezilla if I would like all my bridesmaid to have their hair up, and I am the only one that has my hair down.... the thing is, my fiance's sister is one of my bridesmaid, and she has a short bob – is it unreasonable of me to request someone with a short bob to have her up?
P.S. all other bridesmaids have long hair
2007-08-20 03:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by Vesper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Simply - yes, you are being just a little unreasonable dictating the hairstyles of your bridesmaids. Let them pick their hairstyles -- they're big girls and know what looks best on them. They'll also look better if they feel comfortable with their hair.
Lastly, you asked each of the girls to stand up for you because you love them. And I'm sure you love them because each of them is a unique individual. Do they really need to look like cookie cutters?
At the end of the day, it doesn't matter what their hair looks like. You're still going to be the bride - even if one of the bridesmaids wears her hair down.
2007-08-20 03:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by sylvia 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It is unreasonable for you to ask the bridesmaids to wear the same hairstyle. Everyone has different hair lengths and hair types. You should let them wear their hair the way they like it. Maybe you should ASK them to consider an up-do and explain why you want it like that, but don't force them if they really don't want it. If i was a bridesmaid, I would go along with it just because it is your day, and that way you are not being bridezilla. But if you ask them, you have to respect their decision. Also let them choose the style of the up-do. i think the pictures and stuff actuallly look better with a little variation. Otherwise years down the line you might not be able to tell who is who. With the short hair, you can always just have it pinned back away from the face.
2007-08-20 07:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥ Well if her hair is short then she can't very well put it up really, maybe she's open to the idea of extensions so that her hair can be put up? It is your wedding and it should be the way you want... however its in the way you approach the situation whether it makes you a Bridezilla or not. If I were you I would sit down with your bridesmaids and say "I really appreciate all the help ya'll are giving me but I wanted to talk about wedding day hairstyles for ya'll. It would mean alot to me to be the only one in the wedding party with my hair down would everyone mind wearing there hair up?" Then suggest the hair extensions for the short hair... that way its done nicely & with grace so they are much more likely to say yes! Congratulations and Good Luck!
2007-08-20 06:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are being a Bridezilla unless you are paying for it. It is wrong for you to make these girls put out extra money.
As far as the groom's sister, if you are paying for all of the other girls to get an updo you should pay for her to get her hair "done" with pretty pins and/or crystals. It is totally unreasonable for you to require that her hair be "up".
2007-08-20 05:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by ee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is too short to go up then yes that's unreasonable to ask, you cannot ask someone to be uncomfortable all day, and if it is short it's not gonna be the same as yours, everyone will know you are the bride, don't panic, you'll have to moment in the spot light. If it is not possible to do then yes it is unreasonable to expect that.
2007-08-20 04:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are paying for all the hair and are willing to pay for a hair piece to make your sister hair go up- then that's fine.
Rule of thumb is- you pay for it and everyone does what you want. If your insiting that everyone have the same hair and not paying for it- then that's unreasonable.
My sister inlaw was in a wedding where they all had the same hair do and her hair is short and flat- the bride bought her a hair pieces and paid for everyone's hair.
2007-08-20 03:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
even in spite of the undeniable fact that I had an ordeal run at a diverse salon then the place i certainly had my hair accomplished (trip spot wedding ceremony), she did not do it as completely as she could've if it were the actual wedding ceremony. I had an up do, and a partial up do for my trial run, and regardless of if it looked greater effective than something i could desire to do, she did not spend greater effective than 15, 20 min on each type. as quickly as I have been given the actual difficulty accomplished, it took approximately ninety min for the up do. i've got been going to the 'trial run' stylist for years, so I have confidence her, i comprehend while she says that it incredibly is 'merely to confirm' what issues will appear as if, and you will like, she ability it. AND, I did have the tiara and veil placed for the trial run. i don't think of they are jacking up the fees merely to screw the bride. i think of there is greater time invested on the marriage day, and that they are paid as a result. do exactly not overlook to tip! :) stable success, and Congratulations!
2016-10-16 05:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by gustavo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think that is going to far, I was in a wedding that the bride was a hair dresser and the bridesmaids went to the spa to get our hair done she was not there and then when she saw my hair she got some pins and put my hair up, I was so mad!
2007-08-20 04:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by spagirl23188 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last wedding I was in we all had to have our hair up, either all up or partial up. I personally love to wear my hair down but it's your wedding so whatever you think is best and a short bop should look OK up, with pretty pins and stuff
2007-08-20 03:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not unreasonable, but it is impossible to get short hair up as perfectly as long hair. Consider purchasing one of those clip on hair pieces in her hair color, having her hair pulled up as well as it can be (with aid from much hair spray and gel) then styling the hair piece in the the style you want.
2007-08-20 03:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋