ok guys, what makes a girl seem "approachable" or what really attracts you to a woman??And how do you know when a girl likes you?? you know without asking.....what do you do or say to a girl to let her know you like her(without just going up to her and saying "hey i like you" please answer i really need this =)
2007-08-20 03:16:38 · 16 answers · asked by Suzie Cullen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a chick & what I most notice on a guy is the appearance, attitude, personality, & if he seems to be approachable. I also pick up on little vibes from them which tell me if it's worth it or not to risk taking a chance on them.
2007-08-20 03:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by Heather P 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I see this question so many times and have to keep thinking. In today's society why do you as a modern women have to wait for the guy to approach you? I think that their is nothing more sexy then a self confident women (Guys View). If you see a guy you have an interest in get off your but and go up and introduce yourself (we are not mind readers). Nothing is greater to a guy then when a women comes up and says hi I saw you across the room and just had to come over and introduce my self. Then you just let nature and conversation take over. If you try this what is the worst that can happen he says I am sorry I am seeing someone or you sitting all night just looking and never even gave it a shot. Please just take a chance and try it you will be nerves at first but that will lessen each time you meet someone. Who knows you mite even make some truly great friends in the process also.
Good luck and get off your butt!!!!!!!!
2007-08-20 10:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by bjg76522 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats hard, just as hard for us as the girl. Usually I'm really outgoing and I'll do things without notice, but when it' a girl, I get all faulty and think waaaayyy too much. A girl to seem approachable, probably has to seem friendly, like she wants to talk to people or wants to have company, can't seem secluded and lost from everyone else. For me to know when a girl likes me, in my past the girl always looked and smiled away from me when she noticed I looked back, she would be everywhere (not in a stalking sense) and for me to let a girl know i like her, I still haven't got that down, thus I'm single, if you have any tips for me let me know! lol
2007-08-20 10:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are approachable when they don't have an aloof attitude or like "I can have any guy I want". When I like a girl, I do strange things like try to lend her stuff (because she has to give it back!), keep in contact with her (without smothering her- if it seems she's getting uncomfortable I'll back off). Guys often think that girls like them when they really don't, it's something of an art form working it out...
2007-08-20 10:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by spirit_of84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, the best thing you can do to be approachable is to smile, and possibly throw some makeup on or wear a lowcut shirt. But the smile is the real thing that seals the deal. When I see a girl I smile back at her to know that I'm interested. To further express my interest I introduce myself and ask her name. But I cant express enough the impact of exchanging smiles and eye contact.
2007-08-20 10:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:
1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)
Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).
Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, doesn’t use drugs, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth
I have no idea when a girl likes me... Probably my biggest flaw. I need obvious flirting in order to see her interest.
If I like her, I flirt... I try to be funny and make her smile.
2007-08-20 10:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the woman's personality, attitude, and just the way she carries herself that makes her "approachable" or "standoffish". What looks mean to one may not mean the same to another. But, a woman's overall "package", her looks, her positive attitude and personality, her sense of humor, conversation style, and things like that are what I'm attracted to.
If I liked you, you'll know it in pretty much everything I do around you. You'll see me hang out more around you, would be looking to make a conversation, even ask you out. I don't have to necessarily say "I like you" to convey how much I like you :-)
2007-08-20 10:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by this_big_one_is_4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just feel it.. i dont know how. it is in the little things.. if she notices things like.. i dont know, if she notices I shaved.. I shave once a week it is OBVIOUS when I shave.. it is a completelly useless remark.. so if a girl is saying that, she's something else on her mind.
In my case I am a lazy one.. I don't like to walk into a bar and start hopping around bothering girls, I never did it in my life. . I am always looking for small signs.. i think if you like the guy you are sending those messages already without knowing it.. if he doesnt get it.. it's not ur fault.
2007-08-20 10:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by kunosayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this question is complex to answer.
what really attracts me is if she is intellectual and can pretty much flow with me. I mean...i know that sounds chauvinistic but in the end, we all have our own way of viewing life and going about things...so if a woman can vibe with me about how i do things, then we good.
O yes, sexy...not trashy, but that classy...business suit type of chic
as for telling her i like her, i would just be straight up with her. "hey, i'm digging you." boom. out in the open. they do what they want with that information.
2007-08-20 10:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Antonio G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would approach her because of the way she carries herself. she got to have a postive attitude and good manner.You know when she walk up to you and ask a question about yourself. You can give her a comment about her.
2007-08-20 10:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by tisha o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋