In the relationship/s you've had, what made you consider this person the biggest loser?
2007-08-20 03:06:50 · 3 answers · asked by BelindaCuty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would consider myself the biggest loser in my first marriage. I married him because I found myself pregnant and my parents and his pressured us to "do the right thing" From the start he was always angry at and the world. It just that i was smaller and easier to hit. I tried for 5 years to make it work even after my daughter died at the age of 23 months. I kept quiet and made myself small so he wouldn't notice me as a way to keep from being beaten. I hid my bruises as if they were my same. Then one day a guy from work took me aside and told me I deserved better and if he didn't see me looking for it he would find it for me. That was it. I stopped hiding the bruises and started defending myself. I found a wonderful support group. They showed me that I was someone worth while and that I deserved respect.
Today I have the most wonderful man in my life. Together we are raising 2 beautiful children. and I am not the biggest loser any more.
2007-08-20 03:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by nykate_winslow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on mee.....he was a realll loser...but i never did 4get abt him..i still talk to him..he was like on of my best friends...it was pretty hard on me.
2007-08-20 10:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by shawanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my case when she dumped me.I think she was a big one.
2007-08-20 10:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋