any tips and advice please?? we are living in very close rooms at university... so for the coming year i will see her day in day out!!
2007-08-20 02:56:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Climb a ladder.
2007-08-20 03:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really liked her, it’s going to be hard but you have to do the mature thing and try to maintain a casual friendship. Talk about the weather and classes, but leave it there. Try to not to hang out in the same social circles, but keep her as a friend. If she gets emotional or depressed, you can be a good crutch and she might need you for a booty call. Another benefit to detaching yourself emotionally is that she could refer you to other girls.
Look at it as an opportunity not as some emotional hurdle.
2007-08-20 10:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by ConnorWilhem3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why they tell you not to date your flat mates! You will have to start afresh do things to keep youself oppupied go out with your friends take a break why not just concentrate of having a good time will all ur mates you do have for now. Stop obsessing over her go do something if you start to think about her.
Don't rush into a new realtionship untill you are ready it will cause more upset than you know.
2007-08-20 10:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I'm still tryin to figure out myself. Best I could do is be friends if you're gonna see her every day.
2007-08-20 10:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lily R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out with friends...find other things to occupy the time...
I know it will hurt for a while...but there is truth in that time will heal all wounds...and it will get easier...
2007-08-20 10:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved more with other stuff and start dating other girls...you'll get over her in no time. Just keep busy
2007-08-20 10:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by FeeFi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about it and start doing other things.Find a girl you think you would like to get to know and spend time thinking of her in stead.But you should have seen this one comming dude,like i told ya dont put your heart to far in to it.
2007-08-20 21:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by wiringtheworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be busy with your own life be civil if you see her move forward
2007-08-20 10:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my life!! i was in the same situation once mate, just ignore her. and get a new group of mates and keep busy it will feel better soon enough. i couldnt care less now :-) and its all good. just keep goin u will be there soon
2007-08-20 10:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
THis is what you do...you gotta think of the negatives of a girl....
when i liked a girl i looked at her arms and she was hairy......now i never liked her.....brrrrrr.......freaky...
just think of the negatives
trust me it works
2007-08-20 10:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by ireallyreallyasorry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋