What Do You Do If You really like A girl?
and if you ginore her are you trying to tell her you dont liek her?
and why the hell are you so damn complicated?
2007-08-19 22:11:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a quite type but I do have some advice for those.
Guys, just tell her the plain TRUTH.
Even the part that you're shy if it's true. You could tell her: "I really like you but I don't know how to approach you. I tried to figure out what to say but I came up with nothing. All I know is that I really like you."
Guess what, there is a good chance that she will be attracted to you just because you had the guts to be honest! She probably never heard something like that in her entire life.
Beeing shy and nervous only matters if you can't handle it and try to hide it from everyone. If you can admit to yourself and others that you're not "perfect" you are not displaying a weakness anymore, but STRENGTH!
Nobody wants perfect people. Perfect people suck, because they're unauthentic.
What most guys do is either try to get the girl trough the "friendship backdoor" which almost NEVER works or they're trying to impress the girl and everybody around how cool and great they are, which just states the opposite.
It's the easiest thing in the world to lie and pretend to be the hotshot and a superpimp. Even the girls with low experience can smell the crap right on.
But honesty is so rare nowdays. In fact, most guys think the key to get a girl is to LIE to her. To pretend that you don't want anything from her. What a shame! Those same guys complain how girls are manipulative and dishonest but these guys themselves do the same thing in first place. One can't expect that women drop their games if one stays dishonest himself.
Guys, don't do this.
Go for what you want without any excuse, and DON'T THINK ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK. Thoughts of other people are not your business. When you realize that you actually come closer to the people. Thats where respect begins.
2007-08-20 07:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Wildan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a really quiet, shy guy, so I thought I'd give my answer. If I really really like a girl, I can't hardly look at her and it's so hard to go over and talk to her. Whenever she's around my fingers are shaky and I tremble in my skin. It's because I'm so nervous of doing something wrong and mess up, not being able to get the thing most precious to me, love. If I do some how get enough courage to talk to her, I sound like a damn bumbling fool. I hope that someday a slow smile and a gentle look in my eyes will be enough to get a girl.
2007-08-19 22:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by Psychology Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are complicated because we have our fears and uncertainties as well, either from lack of experience, no interest, shame or just previous bad experiences.
Ignoring in a mean way and trying to avoid completely means that we don't like you.
While ignoring in a way of not taking initiative to talk or do things, but being really nice when talked to, might mean we like you but are just too shy or worried about your reaction.
It does depend on each person, but this is how i see it. If the girl takes initiative and breaks the ice she would do herself and us a big favor, if the signs are right. After that quiet guys get quite comfortable.
2007-08-19 22:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I talk to her, maybe to find out how she is, if I cannot think of anything else. And I might smile at her and I'm more likely of giving her a high-five or supporting her.
I am not trying to tell her that I don't like her by ignoring her. No need to tell her that unless she asks.
We are simple, no? The only way we seem complicated that I can think of is when we are nervous about how to find out whether you like us or not. If we ask you out and get a runaround, we can feel very badly, because the girl giving us a runaround is someone we like.
2007-08-19 22:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when I don't like a girl and she tries to get all over me, I just try to avoid her as best as I can and I definitely won't be smiling. If I like a girl, I will get really nervous around her, smile, maybe even blush. I'll glance over at her often and if I see her look back I'll look away... Just shyness and nervousness.
2007-08-19 22:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We aren't complicated! Women think we are because you all think we can't really be that stupid. GUESS WHAT WE ARE THAT STUPID!!! Our goal in life is die in bed with a woman screaming her lungs out. how complicated is that? Talk to him. Ask him and move on one way or another.
2007-08-19 22:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by sutiluspendragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I liked one already but just won't dare to confront her ! But in that case i will take many peeks at her and if she see me then i'll just pretend i'm looking at something else!
2007-08-19 22:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by john need account 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that i like her. if i ignored a woman it means im not interested in her. we are complicated???? i think that women are. and maybe it is because you dont understand what you got yourself into.
2007-08-19 22:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by oraple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i like a girl.. i just kinda subtley look at her every once in a while.. and when she looks back and we make eye contact i kinda look back down real nervously lol
then blush
thats just me tho,
now im with that girl tho :D
2007-08-19 22:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by ALEX!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Males......complicated? lol those 2 words actually go together? I thought we all are predictable. . . . . . . . .
2007-08-19 22:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋