I completely fell in love with my best friend. but when i told him he said that we had too much in common and that it would just be weird to date. He was the first guy that I ever truely loved. And its been about a month and I still think about him and i still feel the same way, how do I get over him?
2007-08-19 21:21:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He gave a generic, ridiculous response. There must be something else. Sorry, hon, I don't like to say it but there was something else that he didn't tell you.
A month is a very short time. I don't know ANYONE who has gotten over someone in that short a time. The only thing I can think to do is spend time and effort making yourself the kind of woman that you think a guy should want. Then wait for the right one to fall into your hands. Turn your aggravation into energy if you can. Don't let it control you instead. You have a way to use it, to make yourself stronger, to learn patience.
2007-08-19 21:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Honestly, there's no cure. People say a new love is the best cure for a broken heart but when you're in love, the last thing you want is someone new. Sure it could distract you for a minute but then when you do remember your true feelings, you have to deal with those feelings. Dating other people would be like putting a band-aid on a bullet wound...covering it up but it's still there and needs to be treated. It could take months to get over that person. There's not cure and no quick fix. Go sit down or lay down and cry and let it all out. And just when you think you're finished crying, guess what, you wont be. Not to sound negative (okay, too late, I know) but there's no cure. Here's a hint: dont listen to love songs, that only makes it worse. What may help it allowing yourself to feel however you feel and be true to those feelings until the pain lessens. Cry whenever you need to and talk to people who honestly care. I feel sooo bad for you because I've already been there, done that, bought the tee shirt, sent the post cards, took pictures and working on the tell all book. Good luck. One more thing: Really pray about it. Let God help you with those feelings. He is kind to the broken hearted.
2007-08-19 21:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by where's the love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only time will be the true healer. I just wish you the best in finding the perfect guy for you.
2007-08-19 21:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by M J 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a "Peni-Trapper" as they are tagged OR don't
OR just zoom in on the negitive things about him
2007-08-19 21:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give yourself and know he is not the only guy you will ever love in your life...
2007-08-19 21:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't push it or you'll push him away. Be content to be his friend....then get a man and make his *** jealous!
2007-08-19 21:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋