is it ok for a girl to say that she is horny by using the termonology "wet" or "damp"?

Question

for example; " just got a little wet."

"my panties are a bit damp."

or other such statements.

please let me know your opinions on this matter. ps be as detailed as possible i am trying to understand etiquatte.

i am inquireing about public conversation. not privet. saying this around friends, or family. not just to that special someone, or in the bed room.

i am inquireing that if perhaps i am aroused by someone or something is it ok to tell people around me, whom so ever is there, a friend, a sister, or who ever that my underwear is wet now. is this fround upon, or brushed off as regular conversation? please keep the responses coming!

Answer 1

I've never heard either of those terms used in everyday conversation. In fact, this is not a subject that comes up across the family dinner table much!

Most people keep their bedroom conversation for the bedroom.

It is rarely appropriate to discuss your most intimate feelings publicly. A couple of exceptions might be with a small group of friends, or at a public forum especially for discussing such a matter.

There is nothing *wrong* with saying either of those things, but it would certainly be out of the ordinary.

Cheers :-)

Answer 2

If the girl ever has hopes of being respected and not thought of as lose or easy and has aspirations of one day being a lady then no it is absolutely wrong to talk that way to anybody other than a spouse behind closed doors. Any opinions contrary to this strengthen the decay of society and moral decline. It's no wonder extremist Muslims want every American dead.

Answer 3

I'd say for the most part this is not for public discussion at all. Who are you going to tell that you're horny - a stranger on the street? Your father? Your brother? This has very little to do with etiquette, and a lot more to do with privacy and plain old common sense.

Answer 4

It is absolutely NOT appropriate to say this in a public conversation. Only one's partner needs to know that one is sexually aroused, and only in the privacy of one's own home is this appropriate. The terminology isn't the issue; one's friends, family, acquaintances, co-workers and random people do not need this information. At all.

Answer 5

It is the same as a guy saying that he is "dripping". I think that is generally not a socially acceptable thing to say. I feel any reference to "wet or damp" is not acceptable either in normal polite conversation.

Answer 6

I'd prefer that a girl just tells me that she's horny. Damp sounds kind of silly.

Answer 7

Discussing ones sexual desires publically is never proper.

Answer 8

in public no and if its to a guy you don't really know then that s also a no. but if its to your boyfriend/husband then yer sure you can

Answer 9

In my humble, yet correct, opinion, it is not OK for a girl to tell those around her that she is sexually excited.

Answer 10

or she could say she got a little excited.