should i do it again?

Question

about 2 years ago i met this guy in oregon and we started to be bf and gf he was my first love/kiss and i found him again on myspace after i had moved. we started talking again and now im really confused. he says he want to get back together but when we discuss it he changes his mind. what should i do? get back together or say good bye and let everything nd on a good note forever

we were split up by my parents divorce and i think he's afraid of losing me again.

Answer 1

First he says yes,and then he says no. How can you expect him to commit to a serious relationship if he can't make up his mind? If he can't give you a simple answer,then end the relationship on a good note and move on. It has been two years after all, and you moved away. Is he involved with someone else at this time? Is that why he can't give you a straight answer? I don't think he sat around for the last two years doing nothing. If it has been that long, the chances are good that he is involved with someone else. Personally i would walk away from this one and keep it as a sweet memory. I hope this has helped you and the best of luck to you..

Answer 2

Just say good-bye. This guy doesn't know what he wants. But yeah you can end things on a good note. But it really seems to be a waste of time - and you don't even need that. So when you're ready just let him go. There are other guys out there who won't confuse you. Ones who know exactly what they want.

Answer 3

I would not discuss any kind of romantic relationship with this guy any more. Tell him you can just be friends. You can choose to either stick to friendly type conversation, or no conversation. I would not give him any response if he brings up the boyfriend/girlfriend question again. You can talk about other things if you want.

Answer 4

It seems like he's not 100% on what he really wants and you're the one that's going to end up hurt. Be sure it's what he really wants you don't want to be in a relationship where one person isn't 100% committed and dedicated.

Answer 5

changes his mind? are you going to put up with that? maybe i'm too proud, but i wouldn't let him dictate what is going to happen and be waiting around for him to make up his mind. it sounds like he's toying with you...and even if he weren't, i don't know about you, but i want a guy to WANT to be with me without hesitation. he should care for me so much that he doesn't and couldn't bare the idea that he would lose me...i wouldn't wait around, and be available for him to pick me up when he chooses. i say, say "good bye"

Answer 6

I really think you need to tell him goodbye he really doesn't know what he wants,,,so you would end up getting hurt,,,,I think,,,

Answer 7

hi there.. i think u should really sit down & talk to him.. Try to really ask him wat are his probs that make him so confused? then u will decide which way to go..