I have been dating this guy for a few months. After school got out we still decided to stay together. During the summer we both went out of the country. We have been emailing each other but in the middle it just stopped. Then on aim he wouldnt im me or anything. Hes just invisible all the time. He came back a few weeks ago and he didnt tell me. I am going to see him in a week when the school orientation starts. What does it mean? and should I say/do anything?
2007-08-19 18:04:29 · 15 answers · asked by xMelliex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly, i grew up around guys. it may not be that he's cheated or is cheating...but guys deal with emotions and thoughts differently. i would have to say he's ready to end it but doesn't know how. i don't know how close you were to him. a lot of girls would just walk away at that point, but me, i'd probably (because i'm more guy-minded-understanding-wise) would probably walk up to him and say
"hey
at that point he will (if he's any kind of man) come clean on what his deal is. if he's a wussy and says something obnoxious just laugh in his face and walk away...it will aggitate him more than anything else you could have said...that you were strong enough to be amused by his smallness.
2007-08-19 18:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by cthulhu_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than bombard your brain and heart with "what if's", wait til orientation, then ask..."What happened?"
He does owe you an explanation. As his g/f, you're entitled to know anything that might be potentially detrimental to the relationship. I'm not going to guess at what it could mean, either....cause everything is purely circumstantial as of right now.
Good luck.
2007-08-19 18:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by imrt70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he isn't interested in having a relationship with you. The distance probably made him realize he doesn't want to be with you because he probably didn't miss you. I know it hurts, but I would just give up on him. I wouldn't go see him because if you still like him emotions will brew back up for you, but on the other hand, so might his. I say you do what's best.
2007-08-19 18:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...well the only thing i can sugest is waiting for school to start to see what happens. Usually if a guy doesn't im you and doesnt tell you hes back it means he lost intrest in you. So just wait for school to start, then walk up to him in a calm cool fashion and ask him "What's up?"
Thats all I can suggest.
2007-08-19 18:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Megz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too embarrassed to tell you that he wants to stop the relationship, so he hopes you will take the hint. That is a coward's way out. Forget it.
2007-08-19 18:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means, "take the hint he is no longer ineterested in you." About all you can say at this point is hello if you happen to run into him. Otherwise, it's over time to move on.
2007-08-19 18:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious he knows how to communicate with you when he wants to, so the fact that he isn't doing it certainly suggests that he no longer wants to. If you want to know why, you could ask him. Or, you could just move on and get yourself involved in other things and with other people.
2007-08-19 18:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be friends but I don't think he views your relationship like he use to. I wouldn't get your hopes up or waste alot of time worying about it either.
2007-08-19 18:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by Miranda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he no longer desires to fill your tuna pie up with his large meat stick.
he has found a new tuna and isn't interested in yours.
yeah, you could always rub your tuna pie and shake his hands....they love the scent!
2007-08-19 18:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by polson1000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabe he met someone else or he has family problems
ask him whats wrong and if hes a good boyfriend he will tell u
2007-08-19 18:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by jazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋