i have no experiene what so ever, im sure i'll find someone eventually. But how long? Is it me. will it be a major turn off if the guy i eventually will date knows i have no experience?
2007-08-19 17:41:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe not
cuz then they'll know your not a slu t
2007-08-19 17:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dani [♥] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird that u don't have a bf at 17. Infact that's what is normal. It's also good that u're positive about it. At the right time the right guy will turn-up. Never mind about how long. Your goal is not to have a bf. Your goal is to have a decent, caring and responsible guy. When such a guy turns-up, he'll appreciate u. So cheer up and hold on.
2007-08-19 17:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I didn't have a boy friend until I was 18 and that didn't last long. I didn't date any one again until almost 20. Don't rush it. Go out with someone you like don't feel pressured into sex. Wait for someone you have common interests with and the same moral values. Virginity is a gift Don't give it away. You'll know when it is right. Listen to your heart. Boys are immature.
2007-08-19 17:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by jo jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. I still don't have a girlfriend and I'm about to turn 17 :D. Oh... no experience,,, well nothing wrong with that. Eveutually, someone will see you and hav a go at you. Maybe this year. :) And NOOOO it won't be a major turn off. Normally, many guys like their girls to be inexperienced... don't ask me why, but that's what I've heard xD
2007-08-19 17:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be fine. When I was 17 and it seemed that everyone had already had sex, I found out that some people were just lying about it. The best-looking guy I know didn't have a gf until he was 20. Just tell that future guy that you're picky, and he'll feel special that you picked him. Don't be in such a rush.
2007-08-19 17:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "experience?".
Are you saying you've never had sex?.
You are one of a few girls who is still a virgin at 17. "BE PROUD OF YOURSELF".
If your not comfortable with being intimate with the first guy who ask you,then don't do it.
Saving yourself for the right person is normal. Unwanted pregnancies,and STD's start off by a female giving herself to some guy,just because he wants to.
When you meet that special someone,and he finds out that your a virgin,then he will fell pretty special too!.
(Good Luck!).
2007-08-19 17:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Everyone's different...
I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 17...And he turned out to be a jackass.
That was my main reason for not dating, anyway. Guys in that age range tend to cause more heartbreak, than good.
It's ok to have a lack of experience. You're still young and have time...Just wait for the guy who really catches your eye and heart.
Also, get to know them really well.
You'll do fine.
2007-08-19 17:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've had friends who had their first girl friend when they were 18 or 19, so ur still young! Having no experience is a disadvantage, although u'll become better with experience, there's always a first step, so don't worry if u have no experience right now.
2007-08-19 17:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird, but make sure when you do find one that he's worth your time. Don't be fooled by the one that acts like he loves you, but just wants to use you. And no it won't be a turn off if you tell him that you have no experience.
2007-08-19 17:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by Line Straddler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your time comes. No fixed timing that it will happen. But go out with people that you like. Sparks may fly. Good luck girl. Dont give yourself too much pressure and give off that 'I'm desperate' vibe. That will scare off guys. Be happy. Someone will find you eventually.
2007-08-19 17:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 21!
Chances are, the older you are when you start a relationship, the longer it'll last, so you might be able to avoid a lot of broken hearts.
And at the end of the day, one good relationship beats a hundred useless ones!
2007-08-19 17:48:18 · answer #11 · answered by merlindeguerre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋