My ex boyfriend and me broke up around 7 in a half months ago and i have a big problem. I am now with an excellent man who ive been with for the past 7 months, but my ex is still in love with me bad. I get real upset knowing that hes hurting real bad. We had a very bad break up because i had to move away for 6 months, but we still seen each other every once in a while, our fights all started because i had to sneak to see him because my parents didnt like him. We were together over a year and he cries all the time because he misses me, but i do love my new boyfriend and i would never want to hurt him because he loves me alot also. How do i fix my problem? I do have depression problems from my 6 months away with no phone or tv or anything. my ex was a good boyfriend and i was his first, but we started fighting and having problems. What do i do to make him not hurt anymore without me havin to leave my man and hurt him. I dont want to try it again with him because im in a new relationship.
2007-08-19 17:30:08 · 2 answers · asked by sabrina s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok,well if i was in your position I would stay with my boyfriend and let my ex know that i still love him but not the same no more.And that is better for him too move on because you have too remind him that life has more meanings.But if you feel trapped of your ex and boyfriend then i recommend you too tell your boyfriend you need some time and your ex too. as you think too yourself you put the pieces together of who you would like too be with.The pain of hurtness you'll have at the time but as long as you make the right decision your allset.
2007-08-19 17:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider him a "good friend",both of you can still talk to each other, my ex-gf is like a best friend & neither of us are dating anyone but we still go out as "friends" on occation, (we broke up cause our "interests" slowly changed.)
2007-08-20 00:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋