I'm dating this black girl, and her brother hates me. He says that interracial relationships are a white conspiracy to dilute the black race out of existance.Like if you take black paint and mix a whole bunch of white paint with it, eventually if you add enough white paint you won't be able to tell the black was ever in there, and thats what the white man is trying to do to the black man. Is this true? I'm not a racist or anything, I don't want to do that to black people, I'll break up with her if its true, I just need to know.
2007-08-19 13:09:27 · 19 answers · asked by Booster Gold 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gloryus-I'd break up with her If that was true, I don't want to do anything thats racist. And her brother doesn't date white girls.
2007-08-20 06:13:31 · update #1
Her brother is absolutly correct. You honkeys are trying to destroy our people by turning us as lily white as you are.
2007-08-27 05:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Her brother hates you because he's blinded by the idea that interracial relationships are wrong. Especially with a white person. This is a more common issue than is actually spoken about. Don't fall into a trap. As long as she is happy with you and you are dating her because you like her, not because you want to cause a stir, then don't worry about it. Let her defend herself to her brother. Stay out of family conflict. If it works out then he'll let up at some point. Good luck.
2007-08-19 13:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like her brother has mental issues.
Of corse not. Any time you have a society with many different races. It is inevitable that a certain percentage of both races are going to have relationships. As people become less and less racist this likelyhood increases. It is the oppisite of racism.. its Racial integration
Ask your GF's Brother. How he explains it when a black man dates a white woman. Is that a white conspiracy too?
2007-08-19 13:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some, not all, black men think they are heaven's gift to women. But when they see a beautiful, respectful and non ratchet woman of African descent with a white or other non black man they can be rude. Once I was with my former bestie (a white man) who, well, lets say was close to me, and some hood rat old bummy jobless black dudes said "you got yoself a black girl? You muss be rich!!!". Other times I've gotten rude stares, angry huffs, oppositional arguments etc. Why can't I just be with any man I get along with? It's arrogance, really.
2016-04-01 08:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is true, white women are ahead of the game.
black men that dislike seeing black women with white men need to go sit down somewhere.
Talk about being a hypocrite. Her brother is probably dating or has dated a white woman. But doesn't want to see a black woman date outside her race.
2007-08-25 16:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
wow....that stinks her bro hates u. Maybe u should, even though what he said isn't true. In fact, if a black and white person get married, ur gonna see the black in the person more than the white. Just make sure u respect her, and treat her real good, and prove ur ot racist, and if her bro still hates u....u may need to break up. idk....maybe ask her about it.
2007-08-19 13:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by bRiLa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wtf more black men marry and date white women and women of other races than black women with other races. Her brother insecure. Black women have just as much right to date and marry whomever they want like anyone else. Black women are always the scapegoats for black males who have had bad experiences with black women and want to date out of their race. Go do that but don't blame black women for it. Just do it. Many black males don't want to see black women happy. they don't want us, but don't want us to pursue happiness. Haters....everyone do what you feel. In the big picture when all is said and done, don't matter anyways which way you go Just seek peace and joy...life is short
2014-04-25 18:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by musique1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be true is that why you started seeing her in the first place or was it b/c that black booty is too much. I'm a interracial married white man, I never heard of this and it has nothing to do with why I choose my wife. I choose her out of personal prefrence, you should do the same
2007-08-19 13:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Answerman 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
DUDE!!! What the fook type of mind do you have? YOu are really going to break up with her because her idiotic brother gave you one of his racist theories? He clearly doesnt want you to be with her, but I bet its okay for him to date other non-black girls! Do what is in your heart.... Im sure that girl is better off without you, judging from the way you think.
I wont break up with my boyfriend (white) even if my family members told me this. I know it isnt true and that there are good and bad people in every race, including people who think like this.
2007-08-20 04:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
lol @ you'll break up with her if it's true
how can interracial relationships be a white consipiracy when it takes two individual people to have a relationship? most relationships are between people of the same race. interracial dating has always been and will probably always be a minority so you have nothing to worry about.
2007-08-19 13:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not true. You should have thought this out. If there are two people involved in this relationship, and they are of two different colors, and this "theory" was true, wouldn't they be diluting BOTH their races, not just one?
2007-08-21 19:47:04 · answer #11 · answered by tres_leches_33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋