Ok long story short i met this guy over the summer and i really like him. I think he liked me too. i sent him 5 emails over the last 3 months. he only replyed to one. i sent him an email asking him if he wanted to "come to the movies with me and a bunch of my friends"...well he didnt reply to that one eather...what do you think i should do?
A. Send him another e-mail (please specify what it should say)
B. Wait...he is probubly ignoring me.
C. Call him (he dosent know i know his # though) *blushes*
D. My friend's friend goes to the same school as him. she could talk to him. (what should she say)
E. Mystriously walk by his house...(he dosent know i know where he lives eather)
F. None of the above (offer your advise on what you would do in this situation)
Thanks soooooooooooooo much for your help!!!
2007-08-19 12:49:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or do you think his email address is not working???
2007-08-21 13:30:14 · update #1
hav ur friend talk to him and ask him y he's being such a dick face!
2007-08-19 12:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Sorry sweetie...... he really isn't into you. If a guy were there would be no mountain high enough, no river wide enough to get to you. He would have already emailed you back several times and now he most likely sees you in a different light. Boys are strange at many ages, but in the teen years especially. I would let this one go and unless he emails you or decides to ask your friend for information about you... then let it go. He would only see you as a stalker if you went by his house, called his home, or sent your friend to talk on your behalf. I am sorry to be so brutally honest, but sometimes thats all one needs to hear. You should not at your age keep wasting time on one boy who hasn't shown any interest. At your age you should be out enjoying life. Meeting many people and learning about all kinds of things. You don't need the hassle of being tied down to one boy nor should you want it. Just be patient and the right one will come. I promise you that.
2007-08-19 12:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by billies35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A. Do send him another email. Ask him some questions he can reply to, things you want to know to get to know him better. Invite him to something, or even just ask if he wants to hang out sometime.
Just don't send him a lot of emails, or else you seem too desperate.
B. He *may* be ignoring you, but you don't know that yet.
C. Call him *only* if he doesn't reply to your next email. Say, "Hey I got you're number from ----, so I'm just calling to say hey and ask you if you want to ---- (hang out, go to the movies with my friends and I, etc.)."
D. Do NOT have your friend talk to him. Never let your friends do this for you. If you want to have a relationship with him, yourself, learn to talk t him, yourself. Friends often end up screwing things up when they think your helping (I know, because I've done this, myself.)
E. Do NOT randomly walk by his house. 1, He may not be home. 2, He may not see you. 3, if he did see you he may think you're a desperate stalker. Bad move.
F. If he ignores you after all this or doesn't return your calls, you know to give up because he must not be interested. Avoid looking desperate; act like a friend, not like you're waiting to become his girlfriend. Once you've done all you can, it's up to him.
2007-08-19 12:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Katelyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, your only making yourself look desperate, and probably pushing him away. Stop emailing him for a while, then later on email him one more time just saying hi, how have you been? && Stuff of that nature. If he still doesn't repl then he is just a waste of your time. If you think there might be anothe reason, just have your friend talk to him and politely ask him if there is something wrong with his email, or if he is even getting all your messages. Then leave it at that. Good Luck!
2007-08-19 12:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, before I tell you what I think you should do I will tell you what you should NOT do. First don't have someone else talk to him you should talk to him personally just you and him. But you should email him again and you should first just see if he wants to tlak then if he is online and reasponds then ask him questions about the way he feels about you like do you like me, do you think i am attractive things like that. And if he says that he is interested in you and maybe even wants to have a relationship with you then you should tell him how you feel then you could start to discuss taking it to the next level. I wish you luck and if he does not respond to your email then I would leave the situation alone and forget about i. Because if a guy does not want to answer his email then how could he pay attention to you and be with you in a relationship. I wish you luck am I hoped that I helped you with your situation. Always love LADY J.
2007-08-19 13:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys are weird. Send him another email and ask him why he isnt responding. dont put a bunch of question marks. DOnt have ur friends talk to him for you, you need to do this on your own espesially since you really like him. Maybe he just doesnt like you like that. If all else fails call him. Just be a friend wanting to talk, not a girl flirting. Good luck!
Jordie
2007-08-19 12:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jordan T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me before. We hit it off one day, and after that he became totally distant and uninterested. I don't know why? All we did was talk and have a fun time? Anyway, I'm answering your question. Uh, I choose F. Don't take this the wrong way, but he isn't too interested in you. I think you should just move on and find a guy who's only word in his dictionary is "Reply". Haha, good luck!
2007-08-19 13:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read the replies thus far and i think u know what to do. But just in case u don't, i agree, buy the book- He's Just Not That Into You. Sounds like he's not interested. Pursuing someone is good when u fall for them, but they have to want to catch when u fall.
2007-08-19 13:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.A.T.L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
F, Move on. If he was interested in you I'm sure one email would have been enough. Maybe he is trying to let the other one dn slowly.Move on and if there's a chance for you two, he will be hunting you dn instead of you sounding or looking desperate.Good Luk.
2007-08-19 13:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. I think I know what the problem is. YOU'RE NEEDY AS ALL HELL!! No boy wants a girl like that for a relationship, and I'd be surprised if girls wanted guys like that too. Don't stalk him, don't have your friends do anything (after a while it may get annoying..you may be annoying him right now). Give it time, if he doesn't want to talk to you then you need to accept that. Sorry if it's not what you want to hear, but it's true.
You should pursue a guy who likes you as much as you like him. Stop wasting his time and yours.
2007-08-19 12:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he probably has a gf or is either interested in someone else...else he wouldve replied you even as a friend... so, leave a couple weeks clear of even emailing or speaking to him then suddenly call him up one day just to say hi... he'll get the picture that u anna be frens then itll move from there..
2007-08-19 13:03:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋