Girl Trouble?

Question

I know how lame this is, but I could use another opinion. I met a girl a few weeks ago, she seems fine, but I have no interest whatsoever in dating her. There's a big problem she's 18 and I'm 20, and that really creeps me out. She's really clingy and bugs me every day, how can I tell her that it would be alright if we had an open/flexible relationship with some space, without pretty much asking for friends with benefits and freaking her out?

Answer 1

just tell her you dont wanna be in a serous relashionship and just wanna take it slow and have fun

Answer 2

i think you should to tell her how you feel. but like "im not really lookin for a deep relationship because of the past bad ones, but i wouldnt mind haven a friend someone i can talk to an express emotions to" sound as nice a possible. so she would not be as freaked out. an start ignoring her calls or tell her that you will call her an not to call you cause you be at work or busy.

Answer 3

I hate giving this advice because it's wrong. I feel bad for the poor girl. Just call her whenever you want to see her. Seems to work for alot of players. When you do call for one thing, be extra nice on the phone and when you see her. You have to lead her on just alittle so you can keep her around. But stay kinda distant when your not interested in talking or hanging out.

Answer 4

If you don't like her personality, then you shouldn't go out with her. You shouldn't ask for "more space" if she has a clingy sort of personality. That's just never going to happen.

Answer 5

OK, JUST SIT AND THINK WHAT IT IS YOU WANT.
1, A NICE GIRLFRIEND WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU.
2, A GIRL WHO JUST WANTS SEX WITH YOU AND ANY ONE ELSE.
IF YOU DONT WANT TO BE WITH HER THEN DONT USE HER ITS NOT FAIR. LET HER GO AND FIND A PROPER MAN, WHO WANTS HER.