ok...a guy told me that i was dating material...what does that mean?...and if i am dating material and guys think that..why am i not dating anyone...people tell me im the most caring person in the world..and that i have a great personality..but why is it that there are no guys...seem interested...?..i dont get it....why would a guy say that im dating material but yet not interested at the moment? ahh so confused? :S
2007-08-19 10:49:23 · 8 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants you to know he'd be willing to date you if you'd be willing to date him. If he asked you outright, you might reject him. This "dating material" line is telling you he wouldn't mind dating you, he finds you attractive and sexy, but it stops short of actually asking you. He's waiting for feedback from you now.
Guys have to do most of the asking in this society, but they are often afraid to ask the prettiest girls, because they think prettier girls are more likely to shoot them down. The unintended consequence is that the prettiest girls sometimes don't get asked out at all. Sounds like you might be one of those girls. In his eyes, anyway.
2007-08-19 13:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Durian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation. Men need an opening line, small talk, and to close with getting a telephone number or a date. The number one dating advice for women is "play hard to get". The environments in this society are .1% good looking women, and no one has ever seen the start of a relationship.
2007-08-20 15:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't want to setlle in a relationship right now.They will feel like if they were committed... Now lall tehy want is to have fun **** her and her friend etc... Then after they had all their fun they will come to a girl like you who is "dating material" Wife material" To settle down.Don't worry you'll get your man! Just have patience.
2007-08-19 17:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mahira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He meant he'd date you but he worded it carefully enough to shield himself from feeling rejected in case you had a visceral reaction (such as frowning, erupting into laughter and/or throwing up).
2007-08-19 17:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's trying to get in your pants. Guys will say anything. Trust this old hag. If he liked you, he would ask you out.
2007-08-19 17:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people should never go on a date.
he feels that you are fun to be with
2007-08-19 17:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you retarted, that means he wants to date you.
2007-08-19 17:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by h103192 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because guys are idiots, and apparently you to good looking.
2007-08-19 17:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋