So I had like a first date with this guy I recently met. I went over his house on Friday to watch a movie. He was a pretty nice guy. We had a nice conversation and he occasionally complimented me. He asked if I thought he was attractive (I told him he was) and he asked if I could give him a message (I did). All in all it was fun. He told me to call him. On Sat. I was really busy so I didn’t. I did today (Sunday) but no response. Now I’m thinking he didn't like me. Or he'll just call me back. Am I stressing over nothing?
2007-08-19 10:13:27 · 7 answers · asked by Indgrid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it, he may have just gotten a good massage and now is embarrassed.
2007-08-27 10:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guys point of view: Men dont expect for a woman to call right the next day, they expect for them to do the whole stereotypical waiting thing. When a guy says "call me on saturday" what we expect is that you will call when you feel like it. The fact that you were busy shouldnt make any difference to him if he really is interested in you. At least you called him today and thats what should matter. Dont stress about not getting a response because just like you he might be really busy or be with his family. So your stress is really over nothing just relax and try to remember that if its going to work between the two of you, you have to give it time to work and its going to take compromise....
2007-08-19 17:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by D'zignz of Kaos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is too soon to get stressed over him. You don't say how old you are, but sometimes people assume that if they like each other, they want to spend as much time as possible together, they phone all the time, etc. Others are more independent, and the idea of calling every day sounds like an imposition to them. Take your time and get to know this guy's ways before you go interpreting things he does or does not do.
2007-08-19 21:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by auntb93 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip!!! You just saw him 2 days ago & he ASKED you to call. He didn't have ask you to do that. You were busy Sat. & didn't get a chance to call, the same thing could have applied to him today. Like I say, 99.9% of what we worry about never happens. Have a bit of patience w/a touch of faith mixed in!
2007-08-19 20:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell, did you text him?
it's an easy less personal way to intreact making it less scary, you could try that or wait for him to call you back.
2007-08-27 16:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you are stressing hard boo and don't go giving ******* back rubs hes not calling you so that the next time he can have your full Attn just play harder OK trust me
2007-08-19 17:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by keth a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um... yeah like have some patience.
2007-08-27 15:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by nessa913 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋