im a virgin and ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 3months anyways i wanna loose my virginity to him but im scared im gonna mess up cause its my first time.. anything i should know so i wont mess up? lol
2007-08-19 09:07:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
save sex for marriage! if you been with him for a year why has it taken so long to have sex? if you are unready and scared to mess up you shouldnt be having sex. how can we tell you what to do so it wont mess up? theres no right way or wrong way. just go with the flow.
2007-08-19 09:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable don't do it . . . If you are and would like to be intimate, just relax, it will be a little painfull at first, let him know its your first time and ask him to be gentle.
There isn't anything to mess up. Just be yourself. Afterwards you will wonder why everyone makes such a big deal of it.
Be careful, is he using you just to get what he wants? Sometimes after sex, the guy loses interest. If its the real thing and he's genuine, things won't change . . . sometimes they will.
Its your decision . . . no one elses.
2007-08-19 16:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tim H 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy hugs and kisses,never involve in sex at this moments,when u r not mentally prepared,even after marriage it will be first time.everything is first time in life new born need not teach how to suck milk. Still new born never go dry<>?do not worry,time will come and u will learn automatically, how to gret penetrated and enjoy the friction of pennies in Ur vagina.
2007-08-19 16:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by wwf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greatest gift a woman can give a husband is her virginity. So keep it safe for the wedding day.
2007-08-19 16:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by jfdhel 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If hes also a virgin there is no problem but you should only do it if you are prepared and know of the consequences.
2007-08-20 04:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to lay down in front of a couch and close his eyes.
Put your feet on his face. Just let him worship and kiss your feet. Masturbate while he is under your feet and enjoy yourself. You will both be satisfied..
2007-08-20 04:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well prob hes a virgin too rite?? and ur first time is always goona be awkward......just relax and let things happen..dont try to make things happen if ur not readyy
2007-08-19 16:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by shawanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and gentle during the learning process. You can also gently use your hands, mouth and tongue until he enters you. Be sure that your vagina and your boyfriend's penis are lubricated before he enters your vagina.
2007-08-19 21:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not comfortable...aka worrying aabout messing up then wait a little longer til you become more comfortable
2007-08-21 16:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
save it to the both of you get married
2007-08-19 16:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by suga mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋