Please help me, i want to stop feeling this way!!?

Question

I'm 17, I have no social life and I don't know ANY girls!! This has been bothering me my entire life, I feel depressed and lonely all the time. And the other day I went to this school function where there were tons of people, girls and guys. I looked forward to it for a really long time, 'cause I'm not an antisocial guy, I love being around people, I just never get the chance to be. And I really thought that this was my chance to at least get one girl's number or something. But it was all just a big screw-up, I didn’t meet any girls and I think that this was my only chance, and I f****d it up!!!
I really feel like s**t now: depressed, sad, and lonely. I've officially lost all hope... How can I stop feeling this way and get my life in order?? Please, any advice would be appreciated.

...I know I'm being a drama queen, but try to see it from my point of view, I never get the chance to meet girls and all my friends have very active social lives girlfriends. I just want advice, or anything to help me stop feeling this way and to get a social life.

Answer 1

get some friends. its easy all you have to be is a friendly outgoing good personallity funny positive person. i know you are in school so go chat it up, dont you have friend? go around school smiling with your head up high talking to everyone, saying hi to everyone. it has alot to do with how much of a positive person you are. stop thinking negativily. it will change alot! trust me just if you change your attitude about things. go join a sport. get a job. you're 17. you could make friends many of ways. you have a myspace? check out myspace.com and get some friends you can find kids in your school and save them as a friend and start talking to them, asking what they like to do and compliment the girls you like and so on, its not that hard honey. good luck

Answer 2

We all do some ****** up stuff too. Be patient and everything else will be just fine.