What do i do about my bf taking a break from our relationship?

Question

We've been together almost 8 months and he's taking a break because he is confused about his feelings for two other people that like him. We love each other and want to have a future together.I dont want him to take a break what do i do to get him back?

We've been together almost 8 months and he's taking a break because he is confused about his feelings for two other people that like him. We love each other and want to have a future together.I dont want him to take a break what do i do to get him back?This is what he wrote on his myspace:i have chosen to take a break, even against michelle's determination to keep us together.. unlike last time, this is a serious break that is needed, there are 2 people that i need to figure out my feelings for, and what i want them in my life as, whether it be best friends, close friends, casual friends or anything.. i assure you, this might take awhile, and i'm sorry for the hurt that it's causing michelle, but as far as i'm concerned.. i still love michelle michelle.. i'm sorry.. as of now my heart still belongs to you inless you do something otherwise to make me not want you back after i figure out other things.. as well as those 2 people i mentioned..

Answer 1

Ha. "Taking a break" for a guy really means "i want to be selfish and see other people but i want you to still like me and hang around"- how foolish of you to fall for that. I feel horrible for you.

I suggest you find a guy who appreicates you and cant stand the thought of being away from you. Have some respect for yourself.

Answer 2

la428282 has it right. cause if you go on a date he'll come crawling back, plus he'll be angry. he's just trying to get the best of both worlds. meaning having sex(or whatever he wants) with someone else with a free conscious(guilt-free). because you were on a break. I'd just leave him because he's toxic.
after reading the update to your question, i think it's time to leave, and then and only then will he realize what he had left because you are the best thing for him. he's trying to guilt you in waiting for him to make a decision. and you dont need to wait and see cause there are probably other guys you might not know that are waiting for you to break-up with him. Go out with friends and have some fun. enjoy life because you are going to be miserable if you keep on thinking about the situation.

Answer 3

First of all dont give that we love each other crap. B/c it aiinght happening with him being confused over 2 people okkkkkk. If he truly loved you then he wouldnt even give a **** about one person let alone another one too. Open your eyes and send him on his marry way. **** him b/c he obviously still wants to be with you and like see other people on the side. You see he is confused b/c he is really thnking about this girls and what about you? **** that I would send his ass to hell and make him regret the fact that he is leaving a good thing. He is testing his boundaries with you b/c he wants to see if he can still have you around and try them out first, then go back to you. And bay-bee let me tell you you aiint no ones 2nd or 3rd.... Let him take this break, as hard as it is, as a matter of fact tell him to **** off b/c if he really loved you he shouldnt care about other girls...
So you decide to stick around like an idiot to see when he will get back at you or move on to a better guy who will definitely be all about you and r-e-s-p-e-c-t you..
Good luck :} and you will be fine...

Answer 4

Does he take a break from breathing? What if you were married to him and he again decided to take a break? This only shows you are not first place in his life. You need to give him a long break, called breakup..If he needs time away, then, is he doing things to make his relationship better with you or no? If he doing this just to get away then, actions speak louder than words..

Answer 5

If your engine in your car takes a break in the middle of the desert, the car stops running. If your lawyer goes on vacation while you get arrested, you stay in jail. Or, get another lawyer.
Your boyfriend takes a break from being your boyfriend, the relationship stops. What should you do? Hmmm...I wouldn't sit in jail or the hot sun waiting for him to come back online!

Answer 6

First of all, that's sad. This must be hard for you, because I know it would be for me. I'd be heartbroken, and I'd probably beg for my boyfriend to not do that. I mean, if he is confused about feelings, it makes you wonder if he really loved you at all... And that's terrible, really. If you two had a really serious relationship, that would suck. :(

To be honest, he's not really worth fighting for. It sounds like he doesn't really love you, and you don't want that. You want someone who can stick to a girl and be with you.

Good luck.

Answer 7

"we love each other"...NOT...he is taking a break because 2 other women are involved....he DOES NOT LOVE YOU...wake up and smell the roses...dump him...he has already dumped you or at least put you on hold until he is done playing with these two other women.
dump him and find someone who truly cares about you
or sit around and let him mess around on you and take brakes to do so any time he pleases.
it is amazing the things people put up with from other people.

Answer 8

Don't get him back if he's not willing. You can't force someone to be in a relationship with you. And if he wants to see if the grass is greener on the other side? Would you really want that in a husband? No. That is not a good trait.

Answer 9

If he loved you, then he wouldnt want to date other girls. I think that is just an excuse. Dont go for the break, just end it with him. Things will never be the same with you two.

Answer 10

Good riddance, you don't want this guy. He's playing with your feelings, not a nice guy. Have some self respect, he's making you wait, while he chooses betweeen three people. Kick him to the curb don't look back.