Went to a bar lastnight w/ my good friend. I know she's flirty when she's drunk. But she took me to the bathroom and pecked me. I feel really bad about it. I told my boyfriend, hes more mad at her than me. I told her to never do it again. Should i feel guilty, is it cheating? Should i stay friends w/ this girl ?
2007-08-19 08:45:31 · 8 answers · asked by lailage 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend was WASTED. Gone. And she has a boyfriend too, and was flirting w/ another guy and kissing him there too..... oh girls...
2007-08-19 09:02:08 · update #1
It's only cheating if you kissed her back.
Now, about the whole staying friends thing... just how drunk was your friend? Depending on how intoxicated she was, she may not have even thought she was doing anything wrong when she did kiss you... sometimes when your pretty far gone, things that you normally wouldn't do sober seem completely "OK".
I would talk to her; find out why she felt like it was ok to make a move on you. Then I think it would be good to discuss the terms of your friendship. Let her know what you think is appropriate "friend behavoir" and what isn't. And let her do the same. If this is her first offense, I don't think it is right to end your friendship... everyone deserves a second chance, right?
♥ cheers!
2007-08-19 08:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by Gracie Freakin May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not a big deal...she is a grl..and she didnt mean to kiss u..if she is st8 she wont never kiss u..she was drunk we all do smething stupid when we are drunk..stay friends with her ...she didnt mean to do it and tell ur bf to it was jus a kiss frm a grl..who was drunk no big deal
shahreen♥
2007-08-19 08:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by shahreenxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she kissed a GIRL?
It wasn't cheating - you weren't the one doing it. but tell her to BACK off. and lay of the alcohol.
2007-08-19 08:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by BballBabe17 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people do things they regret when they're drunk. If you talked about it with her and she respects your request to not do that again, it's up to you whether you're still comfortable hanging around with her.
2007-08-19 08:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by gracie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
so she gave you a peck. whoopee. its not like she gave you a passionate kiss. if my wife got upset about all the women who gave me a peck or me them, id be divorced by now.
2007-08-19 08:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by george 2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she was drunk ....oh come on everybody kisses everybody when drunk.
BUT if she repeats it make a run for it!
:)
EDIT: If you didn't like it, it's NOT cheating!!!!
2007-08-19 08:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by deedee 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd say just go back with the boyfriend, heck with her.
2007-08-19 08:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by wowwee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill, it's no big deal.
2007-08-19 08:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋