Will my friend remember when she wakes up?

Question

Last night I went to a club with my boyfriend and my friend. My friend was pretty drunk when we got there and she met up with 2 guys and I sat with them. She leaned over and asked if I wanted to do E and I said no and said she shouldn't either. I went to find my bf to tell him I wanted to leave and she dropped 2 caps while I was gone. She refused to leave with me and wanted to stay with them and get a ride home from them. I wasn't going to let that happen so I had the bouncers kick the 3 of them out. I stood back for a bit and when I went outside my bf was trying to get her out of those guys truck and she was putting up a fight even when I tried to talk to her. She finally came w/ us and my bf stayed until 3:30 at my place cuz I'd never seen some one on E and he told me what to expect for the rest of the night and stuff. She's in from out of town and when she's able to finally talk seriously, I'm going to have a long talk with her. What do I say?

Answer 1

Help her to remember what happened last night, and give her a reality check of what might have happened if she'd left with 2 strangers. Hopefully she'll listen to you. You are being a great friend to her!

Answer 2

No it is quite alright for someone single to do that becasue she has no one else that might be the thing, but first ask her why did you do that? also do not make it like you her mom or something but calmy talk to her and when she is agreeing what she did then you lay down how YOU felt and all the trouble you had to go for her with your B/F so that should knock some sense to her, but try to get in her mind like saying did you know that those guys were probaly going to do something to you if i wasn't there? say to make her feel appreciated about what you did becasue that is not right becasue technically you are responsible for her and you did the right thing!(thumbs up).But then tell her why did you take it even though you said you won't?Give her alot of facts that will make her realize what she did then take it smoothly(you may cry for added guilt!), but anyhow remember everyone makes mistakes and even though she would've been in danger it's good that you were there. this way you can activ ate a chain of thoughts on what would happened when you wern't there to help her. This is a basic version of psycholgical conversation but play it smoothly since she IS your friend........after just end with what you would do if this were to repeat itslef in the future so she knows!

GOOD LUCK!!!

i hope that helps my friend!

Answer 3

first of all you are a really good friend for making sure that she went home with you and not those guys who could have done god knows what to her...i think you should tell her exactly what happened, how she was acting, and how worried you were about her and hopefully she will think twice about doing something stupid like that again let her know how it made you feel to have to take care of her like she was a child and how she ruined your night by not thinking about the consequences before she took those drugs...i hope this helps

Answer 4

as she is your guest, she over stepped the bounds of hospitality by doing what she did, she owes you an apology. Frankly, I'd be so pissed off by that sort of behaviour I would seriously reconsider maintaining a friendship with that sort of person....I'd put her in a cab to the airport or a hotel and forget her. But that is just me, you do need to stress that her behaviour was totally unacceptable to you and that you want an apology and a promise that such will never happen in the future.

Answer 5

I don't know what her memory will be like, but I would let her know how upset you are. Anything could've happened to her with those guys, and she's lucky you and your boyfriend were there and took care of her. You need to let her know how you feel and what you will and won't accept from her while she's visiting you . Good luck.

Answer 6

yes but no it will take a whilr and by the soubd of it maybey so refresh her