If a guy called you a ***** more than once.. would you forgive him?
2007-08-19 04:35:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends in context. If he was just kidding, then don't even think twice about it. It's what guys do.
If he was insulting you, tell him to go **** himself. But I'm not even sure WHAT he said, since it's blurred out xD.
If he's insulting you, and he wants forgiveness, then forgive him. If he's not ASKING to be forgiven, then he's an ***!!
2007-08-19 04:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering there isn't much specification on which position this person has in your life. Boyfriend? I wouldn't forgive anyone who didn't treat me with the respect I deserve. So if he were calling me names, no I wouldn't forgive him because he won't stop doing it. As much as you might want to believe, he won't stop. Friend? Yeah, I could forgive them. My friends call me that all the time. I think it's kind of funny.
I hope that helped.
2007-08-19 04:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Shawnne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends....my friend calls me that loads of times, just like i respond with ar****le ....if it is just a figure of speech between friends then it is all right (heck! we don't know any better :) )
the word becomes derogatory only when there is an intent to insult or humiliate...in that circumstance i wont forgive that person even if they use that word only once...
but a warning always pays... let people know on the outset that you neither appreciate nor acknowledge swear words...that should save you a lot of trouble and affront...
2007-08-19 04:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by naray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.....unless you don't consider that a term of disrepect. Obviously he does not think there is anything wrong with calling you or any other woman that name. Does he also address his Mom and Granny with the same name?? If he does:
RUN AS FAST AND AS FAR AWAY FROM HIM AS POSSIBLE!!!!
I wonder what he would do if you casually mentioned to all his boys with him there that he had an itty bitty wee wee and is a two minute man???
2007-08-19 04:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A what, and no should get out fast ,that's a sure sign of premature abuse ,next he will be touching you like you're a ***** is that something you can deal with.
2007-08-19 04:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by mary j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I would forgive him- but I'd also dump his little hiney.
Nobody but nobody has the right to be calling you any names.
Teej
2007-08-19 04:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Teej 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In sum cases it would be okay to forgive him, like if you did sumthing to him and he got angry and called you that, he is just sad...he still loves you. but if hes bein an a- hole then gurl you should take it to the trash and DUMP HIM!! :)
2007-08-19 04:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by LeeLees 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did it ONCE, I wouldn't forgive him.
2007-08-19 04:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea,
it depends on why he was saying it.
my boyfriend calls me that when we are wrestling around or something like that. or when i say a snotty comment to him jokingly
he says it just as a laughing matter sometimes too.
2007-08-19 04:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by DaniRae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no first of all he should not be call you no F word or B word you are is girlfriend he should respect you.
2007-08-19 08:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by kelly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋