Why are Women so indecisive ? And like to "test" their man ?

Question

Women generally are known for being indecisive, why ? They can change their mind Every 5 minutes ! Why do they love to "test" you to see if you say or do the right thing ? Than either way everything is ok once you give them a mind shuddering orgasm ! Than your the best man in the world, when the night before you were apparently not "the one" ?

Answer 1

But when we change our mind every 5 minutes you don`t feel dull and you don`t know what to wait from us. All men are hunters and if you are sure in our feelings we become not interesting to you. And what`s wrong if we even test you- we like to listen to that you love us, but men don`t like to tell much about their love, that`s why we try our best make you tell us about your feelings. Love us and tell us gentle words more often and we`ll be very happy even you will complain sometimes that we change our mind.......and so on. Good luck to you!!!!

Answer 2

don't generalize .... not all women are indecisive, and all the he-men of this world don't necessarily stand like a rock when a decision is made.

if said woman is indecisive that's because all people have the prerogative to change their minds....after all that keeps you off your feet and guessing.

if she cant decide whether to have that large chocolate sundae or not - that's probably because she is 'thinking' about the consequences...the pros and the cons.

on the other hand she might just be a complete ditz :D

as for the tests that she puts you through...she is just either mentally very disturbed or as the case usually is just seeking reassurances...

so take care of her and have patience...display a little tolerance like she does when you leave the toilet seat up or bring your friends home for a match and beer on some special Friday night...

ps: the sex really wont make up for understanding... at least not forever :p

Answer 3

Ummm??? I think you have answered your own question.

I mean seriously, have you ever had a mind shuddering orgasm!? Okay then. Enough said. :)

In most cases a mind shuddering orgasm is difficult to come by. However once found this is something not so easily relinquished. And because we don't wish to relinquish good sex we ladies may then justify and overlook A LOT!

Here's the female mind on good sex. It goes something like this...

So in public, sure he eats like an animal... so yeah and maybe he is as dull as a soap dish and dumber than a sack of rocks? And sure maybe he whines and complains about his job and co-workers ad nauseam... but then again, when we're all alone, he is just sooooo good to me and my body. Oh what to do??? Big Sigh!

See the point is, if the sex is mind blowing OH MY GOD! good we gals can forgive and forget a lot! :)

Hey, and may I add... keep up the good work! ;)

Answer 4

I know where you're coming from and in the defense of the gender, I will say that not all women are indecisive. It's my guess that most of the indecisive ones believe that this is a man's world and they're not sure what their actual role is. They have sex and get stuck/left to raise the children of males who don't. They stay in abusive relationships because they somehow don't think they deserve any better and they blame all of this on "society". What they don't realize is that They ARE society.

If they ever do get a clue about what they're suppose to be doing, most guys will be in for a world of hurt...probably myself included.

Answer 5

They want a man who is dominant and decisive which is why they act so indecisive. Women change their minds about men all the time because it's conditioned by society as well as be indecisive so that way they will have a dominant, decisive man.

Answer 6

Women love drama. They all seem to think that dating should go on forever -- even when married for ten years -- so when her man doesn't seem as romantic as he was ten years ago she feels the need to 'test' his faith and devotion to her on a regular basis. She really doesn't care how he answers -- it will always be wrong. So? It's the emotions she craves, even BAD ones. Many times women will say and do things just to pi**-off a man in order to feel the emotions flood around her. Never mind that it makes her look like a damn mental case. I made a vow to myself after my divorce that if a woman EVER asks 'what are you thinking?', I will stand up, walk out and NEVER speak to her for the rest of my damn life.

Answer 7

FYI
Althought you men complain about women being like that and living the drama, you actually like it and if your women started to act in a different way like being ok with whatever you do, then you will start questioning and think that something is wrong. Its just the way men and women are!
Oh, and about the sex part, EXCUSE ME! look who is talking now!

Answer 8

Many men are like children and need boundaries. They need boundaries and women need to test them in order to be secure in the relationship. The reason they change their mind is because they don't find a man worthy to make a commitment to. ahem, that can change temporarilly when a good orgasm comes but within a few weeks the sex fascination is over... so don't coun't on your sex skills!

Answer 9

My question is......why ask any woman this question....we are just going to change our minds right after we answer it in the first place.....then again I don't know if any female would answer the question......then if one does she might not be telling the truth and just trying to make you feel good......then if you don't get an answer you might not ever know.

Are you getting my point???

WE DON'T KNOW WHY WE DO THAT!!!! TRUST ME IT ANNOYS THE HELL OUT OF US AS WELL!!!

Changing our minds has nothing to do with whatever test you are conjuring up in your mind. I think....but wait it might just be a test it depends on how you look at it.......let me get back with you tomorrow............

Answer 10

Sounds immature. Sex is not a foundation to start a relationship. Sex lasts for the moment. If your relationship with her is based on sex, then there is no relationship.
You just set yourself up for pain.