i met him, our eyes met and the chemistry was crazy, my husband even said so. I cant stop thinking about him. I am thinking about leaving my husband to see what can happen if this dream of mine can happen...what do you think?
2007-08-19 03:57:03 · 51 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did the other guy ask you to leave your husband? Are you already commiting adultry? Perhaps your husband doesn't really see chemistry, perhaps he's just sick of you and wants you to go.
2007-08-19 04:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should see a counsellor on your own and talk through some of this. There are more things to divorcing a husband just b/c you SAW someone and had a connnection. You need to ask yourself many other realistic questions than whether a dream could work. Does a professional boxer have serious health risks because of his job? does he travel to much to sustain you? would you worry he would look at another woman the way he looked at you and do the same thing? is he married? whats his relationship history like? (he's famous, maybe you can do some research) is this worth breaking the heart of someone whom you are already married to? what does it mean to you "to be married"? are you being selfish? are you ok with being selfish? what are you going to feel about yourself if it doesn't work out? Also, knowing the statistics of these flashy-instant attraction relationships... the social-psychological research indicates they do not work in most cases.
2007-08-19 04:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by beemusic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got one thing right.... In your dreams. Actually I had thought of telling my husband that I was going to pack a bag and take off for the WWE. I wouldn't mind a "rassle" in the hay with John Cena any time.
Awwww, but John Cena is such a busy guy that even his own wife or girlfriend probably doesn't get a lot of togetherness with him. On the other hand, my dear ole hubs has been my companion, my pal, my best friend and #1 fan for a lot of years. We've had a good life and he has been a great husband and provider. He's nursed me through one or two sicknesses, and I've nursed him through a few. We've had our "through good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for poorer then for richer, and we've had a little hell and high water too. We've stood beside one another through thick and thin. When I was down, he toted my load; when he was, I stepped in and picked up the slack and pulled on that rope till he could take it up again. We've ran together through fields of flowers, and staggered together waist
deep in the muck and the mire that life sometimes tosses you into.
Ya think I would turn my back on that kind of partnership for a quick romp with some pretty boy? Not a chance. We'll take this road together the rest of the way, and when some day one of us has to go the other one will keep right on walking, but somehow I think, even then, not alone.
2007-08-19 04:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other than the fact that when U got married U made a commitment......Is there anyone who believe's marriage is a sacred bond anymore? I guess U can if U need that to fil a void in your life cause obviously somethings missing. Is that going to change once U persue this boxer dude or are U going to find this void still exists later one & regret leaving your husband? I guess only time will tell.
2007-08-19 04:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by thathirdrail 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your stepping in a world of hurt! your going to leave your husband over some guy you met eyes with! and my opinion is that
"your out of your mind!" because im thinking that yo9u have a husband because you lovehim right?...then why would you leave your husband?...for some money, fame? just think about it this way, there are other women that think like you! so theres going to be major competition, so him being famous he could leave you for preety much anyone
2007-08-19 04:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by DJRULO_07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is last long relationship that you dont just leave because of chemistry
it is normal for a woman to love someone other than her husband but she can walk away from that feeling
so if you leave your husband for a boxer then you will leve that boxer to a singer then the cycle goes on
that is cheap
2007-08-19 04:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by KIMERLEY c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one has right to do what they think good for themselves but when you attached with some very close to you, then, you should respect the honesty of your closed ones. Some times leaving or scarifying our extremely desirable wish for some one who is presently close to us will also give some sort of mental satisfaction that I have done some thing best for my partner. In return GOD will reward you which may give you a ever lasting happiness.
Note : One should never become a Rolling stone.
2007-08-19 04:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by mak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats just flat out crazy.
How could you leave your HUSBAND for a guy u just met?
What if the boxer dude leaves you and then you want to go back with your husband.
Will he take you?
I know i wouldnt.
If your smart&if you have a heart,you wouldnt do it.
2007-08-19 04:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your being stupid
If every man that came along and you developed the hots for than why did you get married in the first place. You go this route you are no more than a whore.
You married for love Keep that love alive. You should love your husband and he should love you and cut out all the bull.
2007-08-19 04:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Questionable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are full of yourself...the boxer probably doesnt' even know your alive...sounds like your husband wants you to leave...I've locked eyes with George Strait,that doesn't mean he's gonna run off with me...geez...your boxer is probably married and he MAY think marriage is more sacred then you...do you know what vows are?
2007-08-19 04:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋