I love my boyfriend but I never see him. He works 3 hours away and sometimes can come home on the weekends. We get along great and everything. My best friend on the other hand is always there for me. He fixes my car, brings me drinks and visits me at work, takes me to lunch. Am I crazy for staying with my boyfriend? Should I dump him and see if there's something more than friendship with the other guy? I'm attracted to them both but I have more in common with my best friend. What should I do?
2007-08-18 17:55:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are happier with your best friend than be with him.
2007-08-24 15:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ari's Mom 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would really put out some feelers on this one! do you love your bf? do you think that he loves you have you mentioned about spending more time together? On the other side with the best- bud do you want to become involved? Does he attract you is he attracted to you? i would say put a few vague ?'s to the best-f and test the air before you totally break it of with your bf. not saying to cheat on him but maybe your bestfriend is holding back bc you have a bf? I was in love with my best friend in jr. high we even dated....... for two days.! but after we started seeing each other and actually dating it felt SOOOO awkward. i would say make certain before any moves are made. I still think of the what ifs about my best-f.but I'm now happily married. and i now consider my hubby my best friend!!
2007-08-26 23:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by julia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your first relationship is already eroding, or you wouldn't have to ask that question. But is everything about what you get. I don't hear anything about what you do for either one of them. Real love isn't about yourself...it is about how much you care for the other person and their needs.
But my guess is your best friend is gaining ground!
2007-08-27 01:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay the guy for fixing your car!
2007-08-26 12:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by dadw5boys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with your boyfriend don't risk your friendship it's not worth it once you tell your bestfriend how you feel if he doesn't feel the same way then your friendship wont stay the same don't make the same mistake i did
2007-08-27 00:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by roxyjinks38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the best friend sounds good to me
2007-08-26 19:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋