I don't know where my bf is right now. I know he's most likely with family, but it's a quarter to one and he usually gives me a hard time if I get in past 12 after a party or something. lol. So far he hasn't called, and I last spoke to him at around 6:15
Should I give back what he dishes out and call him? I trust him, and I know he's with his family. What do you think?
2007-08-18 17:49:06 · 21 answers · asked by Marissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, we live together...so calling tomorrow wouldn't work..ha he'd be home.
2007-08-18 17:53:13 · update #1
And he calls me when I'm with my family or out with my mom. Come on girls...you know how it is...do you want to be bothered when you're shopping with your mom or your girls?
2007-08-18 17:54:12 · update #2
If you love someone set them free, if they don't come back to you.... hunt them down like dogs and slaughter them!!!
2007-08-18 17:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For crying out loud girl, you act as if he has to "check in" with you, and vice versa. You are not his mother, and he isn't yours. Don't call him, it's late. That is the problem today with couples, it seems as though you have to know where your gf/bf is 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Give it a rest. Absence makes the heart grow fonder!
2007-08-19 00:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by momof3anglz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as you trust him - wait until you have a reason not to before you call him . He may have just been too tired to call you . If anything is wrong , you'll know soon enough .
2007-08-19 00:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Next Saturday night, do the exact same thing and say how does it feel. Say nothing tonight, save it for a week. He will freak, but, will not have a leg to stand on
2007-08-19 01:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by SecundzNotis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him what he dishes out like you said. even though you trust him and know that most likely he is with family. just turn the table on him and see how he reacts!
2007-08-19 00:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by fishin for answer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'd say call once or twice. And at your last call, leave him a message and tell him that you're worried and everything like that.
2007-08-19 00:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Samson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him be with his family, give him some time alone. Everyone needs personal time.
2007-08-19 00:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by ikikcurdog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. Go to bed, he's not your husband and men hate when you treat them like that, particularly husbands. It's good that he's jealous but you relax until he gives you reason to doubt him, then don't call either.
2007-08-19 00:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Creole38 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you trusted him you would not be asking this question.
You are not married thus you have no exclusive right to him or his whereabouts. I would not call him he will feel you do not trust him and that you are checking up on him.
2007-08-19 00:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by pugetsound1973 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it is really bothering you, just call him and say, "hey how is everything going?" and stuff like that. If he really loves you, he would understand you calling
2007-08-19 00:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by qm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call him once and if he picks up ask him if hes busy and if its cool you talk to him for awile give him a chance to say no hes busy if he dont wanna talk if he dont pick up then wait tell he calls you he would call you when hes not busy or when he wants to talk
2007-08-19 00:55:47 · answer #11 · answered by andrew c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋