I don't think that he would cheat on me. But when I have these kind of dreams they make me mad. The most recent was about him cheating and leaving me and the kids... and refusing to see them or even speak with me..in this dream there was this guy I used to "know" and he was mad at me because he said that I back stabbed him? What is the meaning of such dreams
2007-08-18 17:29:09 · 26 answers · asked by scorpio_girl 3 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Insecurity
2007-08-18 17:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by ND 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking about cheating or have been fantasizing about cheating on him. That was the guy you "use" to know. Your dreams are making you mad because it is allowing you to feel it would be all Right to do so. The issues with your children is your subconscious telling you its not right and is trying to let you know to think before you do anything.
I don't know anything about your relationship but I will go out on a limb and say the romance is going or is gone and you both are in a routine now. To include you sex life. If this is the case that's why you are having these dreams. I would suggest a night out alone or a romantic get away just the two of you. It will jump start the relationship. Then wear sexy clothes give him a massage or role play to bring the pop back.
2007-08-18 17:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by here_comes_trouble_4_you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to relax. Obviously need to spend some time with your husband alone. Some people would say that your dreams are visuals of what your subconscious is trying to tell you. You just might be paranoid. You might want to try doing something that will put you in a calming mood right before bed like maybe a one and one with your man, or a hot bath, and even just reading a good book that could probably assist you in sleeping without having those dreams. Also, if the dreams don't stop I suggest you seek professional help. Good Luck!
2007-08-18 17:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by thedim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Dreamcrowd:
To see your husband in your dream, signifies your relationship with your husband and the unconscious feelings you have towards him. To dream that you have a husband (but you do not in your waking life), symbolizes some sort of partnership and/or commitment. Often, it is also representative of the qualities of your father in which you projected onto this figure or the masculine side of your own personality.
To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fianc?, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is actually a reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, it is not uncommon for people approaching a wedding to have dreams about erotic experiences with partners other than their intended spouses. Most likely, such dreams represent the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify anxieties of changing your identity - that of a spouse. To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship. To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you are not being honest with yourself.
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2007-08-19 14:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when we dream things that are unpleasant its because we have been thinking about them. You may have also notice a change in your husband habits. Which is causing you to wonder if in fact he is cheating on you. If you think it. It will happen so you need to change your way of thinking. The guy in your dream may have been someone who wanted to date you and became upset because you got married.
2007-08-18 17:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by gizmoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have constant dreams about the same thing, they are either happening or will happen.
Depending on the situation, are you insecure by nature? These could be fear dreams. Womens intuition though is very powerful.
2007-08-20 01:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by artistcreatorcomposer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wonder if he would to cheat on u....probably stressed about something or u had some kind of argument so now u dream that he might do something bad like cheat....
2007-08-19 19:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR DREAMS ARE A FEAR OF THAT HAPPENING AND WETHER YOU KNOW IT OR NOT IT'S DEEP SEATED ANXIETIES. YOUR PROJECTING POSSIBLY BECAUSE YOUR CONCERNED ABOUT YOU RELATIONSHIP IN THE FUTURE AND ANOTHER MAN COMING IN THE PICTURE OR A WOMAN. IT'S OK. BEFORE YOU GOT TO BED RELAX AND DO SOMETHING YOU LIKE AND EXCERSIZE, YOU ALSO NEED SOME ALONE TIME WITH YOUR MAN TOO.
2007-08-18 17:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably nothing.. i have the STRANGEST dreams sometimes.. maybe its something in the back of your mind that you hope never happens.. personally, i dont think dreams really have meanings.. u just dream about things you think about or have experienced before..
2007-08-18 17:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just stressed out. Drink a tall glass of water before you go to bed it'll help you chillout :)
2007-08-18 17:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋