help with a guy?

Question

mmmmk, i like him a lot i mean i cant express that any more clearly, and i just wanna know how to bring it up or drop hints suddenly, i dont wanna screw up our friendship

Answer 1

You said you don't wanna screw up your friendship with this guy.........but that is exactly what you are about to do if you start revealing your deep feelings for him. Guys are very different from girls, hon. I hardly know where to start in trying to explain this to you. B/c it's clear that you don't understand the concept. They want to pursue the girl, work hard to get her affections, they want to earn your devotion, and if you express your loving feelings for him so soon, he will be so disappointed although he would never admit this to you. He wants you to be something of a challenge, he wants to believe that of all the guys you know, he was the one to win your heart, which takes time. If you care for him please don't rob him of all this. If you want to endear yourself to him go ahead and admire his muscles on his upper arms, be awed at his physical strength but just don't be so "easy" for him to conquer. If you never told him how much you like him, it would be perfectly alright with him; after all, he knows deep down inside of himself, that you wouldn't be with him unless you really, really cared. Please believe me.