I want to talk to a psychologist BUT...?

Question

I want to talk to a psycologist BUT...

1. I've been sent to my school one and have had bad expirences. I got into fights with her. The rude, little son of a....

2. My parents will ask my why and what's wrong, but I don't want to tell them cause they will never let me leave the house again and plus their advice is weird.

3. When I go to school I am going to be a freshman in HS and I don't need people thinking I'm the weird girl who talks to the school psycologist

4. I don't want anyone who can/will call my parents for little things to think I am weird with crazy problems.This being the school psycologist.

ANy ideas?

Answer 1

I can remember when I was a freshmen and how hard it is to be one. If you don't like your school psychologist and there is a mature adult, maybe even a teacher that you can talk to..do so. It might even be a neighbor but please talk to someone. I know at your age..many girls and boys think their parents don't have the right to ask.....but they do and I hope you can trust one of them. Don't get defensive and try to talk to your Mom or Dad . Hear them out without being judgmental or ignoring them. You just might be surprised. Obviously they love you or they wouldn't ask. Give them and YOURSELF a chance. I have no idea how serious or what your problems are, but don't let them get out of hand and turn into a bigger problem. There is nothing to be ashamed of and many people your age and younger have the same problems. No one at school has to know unless you tell them. It is confidential and a doctor or psychologist must obey the law and keep it confidential. You could also talk to your family doctor in private but you are a minor and if you need serious help, he or she would have to say something to your parents. Good luck and nip this in the bud. It might just be normal teenage problems. I am praying that it is.

Answer 2

1. Deal with the nasty rude school psychologist. Maybe she simply confronted you and there was a misunderstanding. Ask for a referral. Do you have insurance?

2. Deal with your parents. Nothing can be built on lies. You don't have to disclose every secret of your life but they need to know that you're getting help. And who cares that their advice is weird. Get the best you can and you gona be out of the house some time anyway, no one is keeping you past 18!

3. Who says that. It is your negative thinking. You are not gonna walk around telling people you're seeing a shrink, nor will your shrink be running around talking about you. Psych services are confidential.

4. Then talk to your parents, find a low fee private counselor, get help, because obviously it's a hard time for you and you wanna be in shape for the school year.

And if you keep telling yourself all the negative things about who thinks what, it's not gona help you.

Good luck, be smart and take some action! And remember, things change.

Answer 3

Your options are limited, pretty much to a school counsellor or convincing your parents to foot the bill for a private therapist (a hefty price tag, btw).

1. You were probably being a brat. Whether she is competent or not is a different story.

2. You have to tell them something if you want to get them to pay for a psych.

3. Don't tell people about it. If it's during school, say it's because it gets you out of class. If it's not during school, who's gonna know?

4. Most likely, your problems aren't as weird and crazy as you think. If they are, then you will need help beyond what a school counsellor can do, which requires your parents knowing more. And, ya know what, if that is the case, *you* need them to know more.

Answer 4

im in the same situation, only im not even considering talking to the school counselor.my old school counselor was horrible. he would mess up everyone's lives (literally) by getting all other students involved and causing drama. he lied to the students all the time and just made their problems worse. it sounds bad, and its true. i thin he was somehow trying to help, but he was far from it. talking to parents and telling htem whats up is hard and usually they dont understand exactly or take it the wrong way. whenever i had stages where i would, they would always get too nosy and ask about everything. i hated it. people at school do get all "eww you talked to him!" its dumb, but true and wont help much if you are down already. i suggest that you ask your parents if you can talk to someone out of school. like get your own therapist. just explain that you are going through some hard times and you find it easier talkin gto someone you dont know. they will hopefulyl undertsand and hopefully things will workout for you. best wishes. good luck in school.

Answer 5

Is there a new psychologist for high schoolers other than the one you talked to before?

Unfortunately, honey, I think they can tell your parents whatever you say to them. That's a major privacy issue for you. I don't know what to tell you. You need a therapist.

I don't know where else you can find a therapist that will keep your secrets. Even as an adult, they can still tell some of your secrets.

What about your counselor? Could she help? or a favorite teacher?

You can e-mail me anytime, sweetie, but you have to remember that I'm a patient, and not a dr. and I don't think I can help.

TX Mom

Answer 6

Is there a middle school or elementary school nearby? They have counselors.
People will find out no matter what they do. Grow a thick skin and ignore their remarks. Your parents will probably get contacted due to your age. Some states have programs at the health department for free birth control (like Planned Parenthood) ,pap smears, and can provide a counselor. The best part is they will not contact your parents unless it is serious. (STD,Pregnancy,ect).

Answer 7

A psychologist is super if that's what you think of you opt for, yet in addition evaluate a counselor. A counselor, a masters point social worker, or an approved medical Social worker(MSW OR LCSW) are super people to speak with besides. in case you're only wanting somebody to speak to, then i choose for to advise a counselor or a social worker. pass to them first -- plus they don't seem to be as close to high priced. No, your very own medical or counseling information are completely exclusive and can't save you from getting a job. in case you're clinically determined with a psychological ailment which would be a controversy in destiny job overall performance, then it may probably behoove you to be forthright with your destiny company and enable them to appreciate. That company, via regulation, could save that information exclusive. i got here upon a internet site for you explaining confidentiality rules. It does say it fairly is for the medical occupation, in spite of the undeniable fact that it additionally applies to counselors and social worker.

Answer 8

Remember, the psychologist is just a human, with faults too. The first doctor I went to about my anxiety/depression after waiting until my forties to finally go, was a total a** hole! He treated me like I was a nut case. (which I did feel like at the time). I was crying, telling him my symptoms and standing at the time because I was so anxious. He told me to sit down, I 'm making HIM nervious! The meds he prescribed made me feel awful, but to have them changed was an act of congress. He "thought" he was God, I think. Well, after a couple other docs, one with compassion I feel good now. Soooo, don't let one person with a degree make you feel worse. She should have NEVER got into an argument with you! Obviously, she has issues and isn't suited to practice. Tell mom and dad. Go see someone reliable. Bottling up a bad experience will only make you doubt yourself, believe me! And make you feel soooo much worse....I know from experience firsthand!

Answer 9

Tell your parents you need to see somebody but you don't want it to be through the school. It took me a while to find the right therapist. You just have to open up and be honest. I understand why you won't want to see the schools therapist because if you go too personal they will tell your parents unlike a regular one they can't tell them unless it's something like you being suicidal since you are still a minor and they have that authority.

Answer 10

Have you ever had a really bad teacher? Then, have you ever had a really good teacher? Same with Psychologists and other therapists. Sometimes they are not suitable for you. I would go ahead and schedule some time with one. Try checking with the local mental health association in your area. Often they offer local, affordable therapy.