I love my bf Jessica so much we r so much a like same names and her brother's named is John and so is mine. We met in 8th and we have knew eachother 4years. She is going to go met her bf David I have talked to him on the phone never saw him he says he is 14 and she says she is in love with him. She her self has never ever met him in person its a "myspace love" He seems okay but Idk something does not fell right about this we where at a sleep over and she told Essence,Amanda,myself we all like sister's. She is the oldest and am the second oldest. I am the mother of our group and I just want to keep her safe from harm. I don't even want to think about what could happen HOW CAN I STOP HER? she is 16 PLEASE I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO IF SHE GETS HURT. I DON'T THINK U KNOW HOW MUCH SHE MEANS TO MY FRIENDS AND I
2007-08-18 13:06:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
i am also 16
2007-08-18 13:12:37 · update #1
I said if u go then am going with u and david does not want me to go.
2007-08-18 13:18:23 · update #2
You probably won't be able to talk her out of it if she's that excited about seeing him. So, I'd suggest telling her parents what she's planning. She may be very angry with you for telling on her, but wouldn't telling the people who can stop her (her parents) be better than the troubles she could have if she meets this guy and he turns out to be dangerous? Go with your intuition on this one, and don't be afraid to do what you need to do to keep her safe.
2007-08-18 13:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Nerys 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hurt, as in seriously hurt? or hurt as in emotionally?
Make sure you tell her how you feel, and how it concerns you, you know? Don't just consider it, definitely do it!
If this is seriously a big deal, like, that, this guy could be some creepo, or a dirty old man pretending to be a young man, THEN STOP HER! If you must, tell her parents... you're not "ratting her out"... you're just trying to protect her...
but if her and the guy have been acquainted before, and maybe they've seen each other at school, as long as they're meeting in a PUBLIC place, I don't think it's a big deal.
BUT if they're going to meet privately, and they've NEVER met before, I consider doing whatever you can to confront.. and /or stop her...
2007-08-18 20:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ⓢⓣⓔⓟⓗ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked, "...please everyone answer." so I'm going to answer. I'm a grandfather with two teenage Grandaughters. They have been raised in a broken home but are in no trouble, yet. I am very concerned with their lives. So since you and your gf are the same age as the oldest I'm going to recommend a book to either give to her or recommend to her.. I got it to give to my oldest grandauchter which I will as soon as I finish it. It seems like a good book for teenage or younger girls. The bibliography follows:
Wendy Shalit;"girls gone MILD"; Random Nouse, N.Y., NY, 2007
It is available from www.Amazon.com or from www.americancompass.com, a book club. and costs about $25.00.
2007-08-18 21:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better tell her parent this way if something happen you don' t get the blame.
2007-08-18 20:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Onin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, please tell her parents if you are worried about her. And hopefully you are not posting your real name and friend's real names online. Best to be safe.
2007-08-18 20:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop her. even if you have to involve her parents
2007-08-18 20:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by christnogol dilynwr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even im not the person who u think i may be, so please advise her not to, please, she doesnt know some people can b really mean i know it from a fact! please!
2007-08-18 22:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by K11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with her.
2007-08-18 20:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by mindy g 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
and..how old are you?
2007-08-18 20:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋