was our Creator against females?

Question

I am religious so please forgive me, but I have this 'conspiracy'.

why on Earth girls & women has all those period cramps and headaches but boys & men nothing????

yesterday I was talking with my friend and she said that I shouldnt worry, if she starts yelling, cause she had cramps. what about me? where are my cramps? oh right, I dont have a uterus, thats why. hm, but still, why I'm not in pain? I'm barely in pain. I'm happy when I'm in pain, seriously. why girls have all that abdominal pain but not boys? boys should also have something. and I dont count the pain when kicked 'down there'.

I remember when the puberty started, in the school they didnt mentioned not even one thing about boys having any pain or cramps. but when I read in womens health section, I just wanna hug every girl. why they have to be in pain? if He created us, why didnt He also gave something to boys too?

the only abdominal pain in my puberty that I remember was, when I ate too much. thats it.

I know that not every girl gets that.

few hours or all day, every month, every year. if watching TV or walking outside or in school or in work, why girls have to have cramps, while boys dont have anything???? is this normal???? I cant wait for some medication, I heard they are developing a very effective painkiller from cobra's poison.

just one pill and no more cramps. this would be excellent :)

Answer 1

I wish all men had your empathy for women! No, our Creator was not against females! He knows our makeup and understands us better than anyone! He made us and we are His beloved children too! Christ died for us as well as our male counterparts. There are different reasons why some women get this condition! It can be helped with some meds the doctor will perscribe if it gets too bad. Sometimes diet has something to do with it. In any case, I am sure all the ladies whom you come in contact with will think you are too sweet to worry about them this way! Bless you!

Answer 2

Personally, I think that if men gave birth, we would have no population increase. I also believe that women love in a completely different way than men, we certainly deal with our feelings differently.
When I went through the pain of delivering my babies, the pain did not make me feel more separated, it made me feel much closer. I did this. I also breast fed, and no matter what some may say, it hurts. Babies can only focus from the exact distance from the breast to the face. More than a mere coincidence I would say. As for the rest of your ?, I believe we each have our very individualized pain we need to deal with. This is no different. Men are made to do the physical work that women cannot. I don't really know about this, and I doubt if anyone has the complete answer to this either.

Blessed Be

Answer 3

All lot of twelve year old girls are strung on guys, Ino and Sakura are rivals of course they're always going to want to be better than each other just like Naruto and Sasuke, Hinata is inspired by Naruto there's nothing wrong with that, It's not a fact that Tenten likes Neji neither is it a fact that Temari like Shikamaru, Tsunade didn't help her enemy she only considered it anyone would do the same in her position (who doesn't want to bring back a loved one?), Haku looks like a girl but i doubt he did it for Zabuza, Garaa might have fangirls but he's Kazekoge that's the reason he has fangirls, Akatsuki has a female charater Konan plus it's all made up of criminals maybe there aren't that many female criminals, and there's only one girl per team because there aren't that may females ninjas obviously. You're reading too much into it. Look at the adult female charaters Tsunade and Kurenai they aren't push overs. It's not like any of the characters are way off. Sakura obesses over Sasuke, i know a lot of girls who can't get over guys. And Hinata blushig every time she see's Naruto because she's a shy girl. You mentioned Bleach, yes they do have strong female characters but you also get character like Orohime who's a complete air-head and that gay girl who always want to get close to Orohime. The mangakas obviously develop characters based on what they notice from real people. And Ouran High School Host Club is like that too. All the girls in the school go crazy for the guys from the host club does that mean OHSHC discriminates? And that show/manga always talks about poor and rich. You're just like the girls from Lo Belia Academy, they said the same thing about Hauri pretending to be a guy.

Answer 4

1- Not every woman has cramps. Most of them just complain of a slight discomfort. It can come from hormonal problems, a woman's womb is a delicate and complicated system and the slightest problem can lead to some pain. It has also been noted that women who did a lot of physical work had lesser periods and less pains than sedentary ones, tying back to our nomadic ancestors.

2- hormonal changes during puberty and the huge changes in the reproduction organs of a woman (much more important than in man) means some complaints from those organs as they come on line

3- If you don't remember the cramps and pain of a growing body, the hunger, the voice change, your memory fails you

Answer 5

no honey, god is not against women, the periods and cramps, and childbirth pains are all stemming from the eating of the forbidden fruit. eve sinned and gave in to satan, which put a curse on mankind, our punishment is this pain, men's punishment was to work to the sweat of his brow, out in the sun everyday, to provide for his family, that's what head of household means, their job given by god is to work their butts off and take care of the wife and kids. but today alot of men don't do this, and alot of women don't have children, or we have so many pain killers that we hardly ever have to really experience what real pain is, the way women had to a long time ago. in paradise, the women who make it through tribulation, will still give birth, throughout that thousand years, only thing is, the curse will be lifted and the pain will no longer be there. and men wont have to work as hard to provide. a long time ago, they had to farm the lands without the luxury of the things that farmers have now, all men had to farm and work the lands, to eat, the bible says if a man doesn't work then let him not eat.

Answer 6

You feel pain for others because you have good heart. Dont ask for their pain. This is how God has created males and females. Females also have the joys that males never have. Like having a loving baby and spending all the times exchanging with her.

Tell me give you a funny story. It is a Joke.

A house wife of a wealthy man had too much labor pain in delivering her baby. The husband prayed to God saying O God next time give her labor pains to me because I can not see her crying so hard.

Next time at the delivery of his second child he was waiting in hospital outside the delivery room. He suddenly witnessed his family shauffer started having severe pains who was also sitting near him in waiting room. Doctors came but none could help. In delivery room his wife delivered a baby surprisingly with no pain what so ever.

Do you get the story why only woman suffers the labor pains?

Answer 7

Your first question is a common one among Christian woman and it is based upon a false assumption that God was the author of the curses on males and females in Genesis 3. At the risk of getting technical, in the original Hebrew text, Moses (the one who wrote Genesis as testified by Jesus himself) used a grammar tense which in English would be called the "simple imperfect." Basically what that means is that though our translation seems to imply that God was responsible for putting the curses on them, he was uttering a PROPHETIC statement. In other words, he was accurately predicting what would come upon women as a result of their sin, menstrual cramps and pain in childbearing being some of the consequences. So what's the good news? We have redemption in Jesus Christ. What that means is that God desires to "bring us back" to our intended original state before sin. God desires healing and freedom from pain as sickness and disease are a result of sin, NOT God. God wants to help us be free from that stuff. Remember - the only "conspiracy" that exists is the one played out by Satan and his demonic spirits and he wants you to believe that God has given your friend cramps, not him. He's been doing it since the Fall of humanity. Finally, in response to your question about why boys don't suffer, they do. They deal greatly with being enslaved to their sexual feelings and need to rule, also brought on by Satan. Theirs can be a lifelong battle, but that's a whole other topic. I hope this helps.

Answer 8

Certainly not. Men and women complement each other. Now, we're very different... but when a man wants to know what a woman is really saying (cause he's totally baffled) he can ask his spouse or girlfriend and she'll tell us what she's really saying. And it works perfectly vice-versa. We translate for each other. There are many other areas as well, but that one came to mind first.

Answer 9

No he wasn't against women.He often dealt lovingly with them in hard times providing good husbands,food ,children and he counselled Abraham to listen to his wife Sara in a serious matter,remember the woman Jesus met at the watering hole ,he blessed her ,there is much more on this in the Bible.You seem to have a valiant heart and I hope it stays that way in a good life to you.

Answer 10

You are cute and kind to concern yourself with this. It's the physics and chemistry of the female body, the effects of hormone activity on muscle tissue and the sympathetic nervous system in the reproduction of large-brained off-spring. We could ask the same question about birth itself. Why does birthing large-brained beings hurt so much, humans and mammals too? Again, it's physics and chemistry necessary to reproduce large-brained off-spring. Male bodies contribute one tiny cell to this process, therefore no pain. To ask why it is this way is to ask why any system is the way it is to attain its objectives.