-- without her thinking he's just interested in 'getting' with an Asian girl?
2007-08-18 10:19:38 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want her to think I'm interested in her, just because she is Asian.
2007-08-18 10:23:47 · update #1
Approach her as you would any other girl. Why should her race dictate a change in how you talk to her?
2007-08-18 10:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by aaron_n_az 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude - been there, done that - you might surprised but asian chicks aren't all that.....
Anyways, just be you. Don't act too withish - oh and def. Her family is going to be a problem, if you fail to play your cards right. Many asian girls (the good kind, not the "americanized" ones) are very thight with their families and often, don't date outside their race, but since you are white, you still have a good chance.
Just show her that you are willing to adapt to her culture (yeah, dude, assimilate as much as possible, it helps, trust me) respect her family and her wishes and you will soon earn some good points with her. Approach the situation in a very traditional old fashioned way, like back in the old days (you know what I'm talking about) Ex; ask her father's permission before taking her out, etc. But that depends on her age.
Anyways dude, hope that helped. Be honest and sincere, and you will get there.
2007-08-18 10:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by altair_the_flyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approaching an Asian girl isn't any different than any other girl. There's no special technique. Unless, of course, she doesn't speak any English. In that case, you would have to learn a few words in her native language.
A girl can tell you are just interested in "getting" with her, regardless of what nationality she may be.
2007-08-18 10:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by christyn79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems you have found yourself in an interesting predicament. Well for one she wont think that. IN case you havnt realized we live in America. My friends parents are black and japanese. This girl will NOT think anything to what you are. Its just a complex you're going through. To get over your thoughts about her rejecting you cause yours white and she supposedly thinks ur just trying to get an asian girl just pretend shes white too if that makes u feel better but i dont see where you go this thought. If she rejects you its going to be becuase
she doesnt like you thats probably the only reason. I suggest to start realizing that were all american so it really doesnt matter...
unless you dont live in america in which case ignore my comments about america
2007-08-18 10:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her like you'd approach any other girl. If your not just interested in being with her for being Asian, then she won't take it that way. It's all about how sincere you really are. Best wishes
2007-08-18 10:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by firefly_eyes75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think be less aware of the fact that she's Asian, and just approach her as you would any other girl. If she's suspicious, there's not much you can do about that other than be genuine.
Good luck!
2007-08-18 10:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by ozperp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, the skin might be different but trust me the boold, emotions and everything is same, if the attraction and feeling is there why not let it out, after all try ur luck and u might get lucky.
also thinking about a way, i asure you there is no way, just play by ur own rules and most important of all, be honest with her and about ur feelings.
2007-08-18 10:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by asuoonline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter whether she's Asian. Treat her the same way as you treat any other girl.
2007-08-18 10:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by chocolateluver60351~~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't act like you want to get with her?
I don't know about other girls, but if a guys just comes and talks to me, I don't think anything more than that. I just think he wanted to talk to me
2007-08-18 10:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eww I hate white guys trying to find some culture in the whoile "ASIAN" thing!
2007-08-18 10:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋