my best friend kissed me 3 days ago and now all he says is "hi" (normally we talk for an hour) im sooooo confused!
shud i be mad at him?
i don't think about him like that but i don't know wut to do!! HELP?!?!?!?!
2007-08-18 08:36:19 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually how to know if someone is a perfect match for you is much like in the famous words, "It's all in the kiss." If you don't kiss in the way expected or looked for with some guy it doesn't mean you're not necessarily inexperienced...it means you're no match for them. On the other hand he's probaly thinking he jumped the gun and wondered if he did the right thing, is why he's seemingly stepping back. It's quite understandable that you're mad at him, for being lifted up and suddenly dropped down. But you do have the right to know what might of went wrong between the both of you, after that romantic moment. He might of wanted alot more and since he didn't get it is why, everything gets reduced to a simple "Hi" as if nothing happened. If he doesn't respect your wishes, then he's not worth it. Don't be rushed into anything...especially against your will.
2007-08-18 08:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know and any girl reading this-it is very rare that a guy wants to be your friend and just your friend. This doesnt mean he is a bad guy or a horn dog trying to score with every girl he sees however 95% of the time if a guy and girl are friends outside of a school environment- he would like there to be more than a friendship. If your feelings arent the same then you must make that clear. His heart i promise will always carry the torch as long as you are friends however every man walking goes through this.Most guys will deny this but those may be the guys you have to watch out for the most. They are waiting for that moment of weakness. Dont be mad at your friend though, he was trying to let you know how he feels. Remember this, a mans ego is fragile and the women in his life will make him strong.
2007-08-18 08:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't be mad at him! Not yet anyway- talk to him. Ask him how he is feeling. Tell him you wish he'd kiss you again. or Never kiss you again! Whatever... maybe he'll ask a yahoo question about what his best friend is thinking since he kissed her three days ago and now she seems mad...
talk to him, silly!! Good luck!
2007-08-18 08:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can safely say, dear, that guys are NOT confusing, but its us girls that tend to over-complicate things. Best advice here: ignore him, ignore what he did, start acting like he's not part of your life....he'll come crawling back to you soon enough--by that i don't mean a day--you gotta give Guys time to figure out what's going on. When he comes up to you just say, "baby, that kiss was nice, but there's a reason you and I are JUST friends--lets try to keep it that way, okay?" Don't be mad at him, just stop thinking about it!
2007-08-18 08:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be shy. Let him know you're into him too. No, don't be mad at him, he may think you're already mad because you guys kissed and you were friends. If you just want to be friends, let him know, if you want to be more talk to him. Just talk about things and get everything out in the open.
2007-08-18 08:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 possibilities:
1. You didn't respond in a manner that requited any feelings, so he figures immediately going back to friend status is the safe thing.
2. Above, plus he found another girl who IS interested since then.
3. It was a spur of the moment thing that meant nothing.
2007-08-18 08:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Xander Crews 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya sista! I think that that he really likes you, so he couldn't stand the wait any longer and kissed you. But now i think he trying to avoid you because he thinks you're mad at him. So he says "hi" to make it look like he's not avoiding you. You should talk to him! Tell him you're not mad at him. Tell him you don't like him that way. It might lead to some heartbreak but at least it will set things straight and things wont be weird anymore. Glad to help!
2007-08-18 08:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Rita H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you just want to be friends or do you want more? He is probably just as confused as you and being younger, he is too shy and afraid of losing you as a friend to make another move. You may need to just pull him aside and ask him. Let him know that being friends or more is okay with you but you need to know what he is thinking. Good luck!
2007-08-18 08:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Z X 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
icepixie 003, Hon guys and girls are very confusing cause they are human ! He is probobly scared too. That kiss may have arroused some feelings that he don"t know how to handle ! Be honest and open with each other !
2007-08-18 08:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it as a kiss and be happy about it and move on..If you did not like the kiss from him then say that was not cool and you do not think about him that way..end of story
2007-08-18 08:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋