How o you forgive GOD?

Question

yes Joab never cursed the lord...but I am not Joab....

First question worded wrong, never helped anyone expecting anything in return..I guess I am disappointed in human nature. The ability to just take..without any consideration to the person who is giving, this stretches accross family and friends...
My attitude is this way strictly because I have had enough abuse in my life...so I am always on the defensive, because I need to be....no one can fully be trusted...unless you know exactly what their motivation is.

Answer 1

World is not for all, so nevea trust anyone with knowong clearly
ok

Answer 2

Don't worry about God. Figments of wishful thinking cannot hurt you.

I'd suggest seeing a counselor or a friend who is better at listening than talking.

My motive? Allow my to tell you a story: A guy falls into a hole and can't get out without help. A priest comes by and tosses down a prayer and goes on his way. A doctor comes along and hands down a first aid kit with some advice. Finally a third guy comes by and jumps into the hole with the first victim.

"Why did you do that?" the trapped man asks. "Now we're both stuck."

To which the new guy replies: "Yeah, but I've been down here before, and I know the way out."

Answer 3

In this world you are on your own. There are friends, family & many ppl. But there is a limit for anybody to involve with your things. Most of the ppl are just looking to take from others but not to give in. That's the way it is. At all times we must keep that in our mind. So you don't have to take it negative because most of us are like that.

So my advise is trust no1. trust in ur self. If you think you can do; You can definitely do it. Don't wait till others come & help you out. Your best friend is yourself. love that person, take care of him, bcoz he's the only person whose gonna be with you to the death.

Did u think for awhile y ppl call him a god? is it bcoz we cannot see him, feel him? We believe that there's God because we were trained or taught to do so by our parents and teachers. And we do the same for our children without even experiencing a god; without knowing the truth of it. Almost all the ppl are left out without a hearing to their prayer.

So don't rely on God either. Bcoz even the bible says we were made in equality to the god & we became equivalent with god by eating the fruit from the prohibited tree....
Moral is : The god is no better than a man!

Answer 4

I survived abuse, too--a lot of it!!! I came out on the other side of it, even better than before, with therapy. I never blamed God. God gave everyone FREE WILL. Parents and others do not always know the right things to do or say with their children. Abuse and neglect can cause trust issues.
I still have trust issues, but it is okay for me to trust myself and be the best person I can be.
Please don't blame God for whatever happened to you. God always loves us and will never forsake us--it is us who leave Him!!!
You are still alive!!! You survived!!! You must be a very strong person.
Be your own best friend and take yourself to a therapist--abuse and neglect can cause a bad attitude and it can lead to a nervous break-down.
I'm sure that you want to be the best person you can be.
Sweetie, I am sorry that you had to go through all of that. You did not deserve to be treated badly. Start treating yourself better. Pray to God for guidance. He has counted every one of your tears, and He knows the number of hairs on your head. He created your soul. He has a great purpose for you.
One can never tell what the other person is thinking--so what motivates them is not your concern.
Your concern is your very soul. You can only control yourself, not others. Be the best person you can be, but first you will need to understand that what happened to you was not your fault, nor was it God's.
Get some much-needed therapy. You will want to thank me for this later. God loves you and so do I.
Good luck and may God bless you.

Answer 5

I understand what you're saying. Abuse does that. I was not physically or sexually abused, I was verbally abused as a child and in an extremely dysfunctional home with my father being a schizophrenic and my mother being extremely high strung, loud and unloving. It takes its toll on you. And it takes years to recover from it. But God can do all kinds of things if you let him, or rather, if you open up to him. I've gone through huge changes, but its taken years and years.

And sure there are people who take and take and don't give. That's not how God wants us to live, that's not God's example. Jesus gave and gave and gave and that is what he wants us to do to, but out of our bounty that he provides us.

Answer 6

A good way to think would be to realise that a god did not do anything to you. everything that has ever happened in your life was caused by a human, possibly mostly you, but of course others have caused some of your misfortunes. it's true, no one can be fully trusted, but you have to know what you can trust a certain person with and learn to be self sufficient enough to trust yourself so that you don't need others. that's the problem with christians, they blame all of their problems on god, and when something good happens for them, they don't give themselves the credit they deserve.

I would like to thank [me] for everything I have accomplished. No one else was really there for me, not even any gods. I did this all by myself.

Answer 7

Well it's common sense to know that you have 2 keep people at an arms legnth these days. Forgive God? He did nothing to you. Your childhood is not under your control - but once you grow up you take the wheel and let Him guide him.

You have no faith - and with no faith there is nothing He can do for you. He will never give you more than you can handle.

Do you pray? Do you only pray when you need something? Do you thank Him for what you DO have?

Answer 8

Toward whom do you feel all this bitterness and mistrust, humans or God?

If I may suggest, you need to do even more giving--to people you don't know. Work at a soup kitchen or a homeless shelter. It'l help you see how truly blessed you are. Gratitude is very therapeutic!

God bless you, sister.

Answer 9

dear sweet gorgeous black sister. you cannot imagine the race of gods that you come from. the only decline EVER that has taken place in man kind in the world up to this day, was the chinese people comming out of the ground and mixing in, then much more recently the anglos comming out and mixing more. the blacks have always been vegetarian meditating masters. There is not enough time in your life here to learn one quarter of the knowlege of kush and its lesser civilization egypt.

You are a goddess in amnesia.

Answer 10

Sorry to hear that you have been through so much. we often times want to blame our Lord for eveything that happens to us. If we will let down our walls, and let just a little bit of Gods' understanding and compassion come in we would be able to accept His unconditional love, healing of our souls, cleansing of our wounds, wiping away of our tears and walk in a new life freely given to us by Him