Right now I am extremely confused. My mind is going crazy at the thought of him. I have wanted him back and he is finally tryin to come back into my life. let me give you all some background on my current situation-
Me and Kevin started dating back in april & have been on & off ever since. We became very serious in june& july and then it suddenly stopped. We got into a fight about him callin this girl sexy and then he got mad at me about confrontin him and this huge mess!!!!
I havent talked to him for a month. I tried texting, callin, IMing him, and messagin him on myspace.
He blocked me from both aim IMing & his myspace.
i was soo hurt and i was sulking around my house for days.
it just seemed like he erased himself from my life & made it seemed like he died.
2day he texted me saying sorry. I asked him why he didnt answer my calls & he said "i dont know what ur talkin about" actin like i never caled and stuff..
he says he misses me and stuff...
he's my 1st love. wat shud i do?
2007-08-18 07:52:46 · 8 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a second. if you went crazy because he called another girl sexy then you're being ridiculous. if he cheated on you maybe but not just for complimenting someone else. You should find someone else who will appreciate your obsessive jealousy because your "first love" as you put it was too scared to keep in touch with you for a while. He was probably keeping his distance because he didn't know what other crazy reactions you were going to have.
2007-08-18 07:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by donbenecio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can comment on other people, can't they? The guy didn't cheat on you , did he? He just commented on some girl and you got your panties in a wad? Are you that needy? Where is your self-esteem and pride? Don't you think you are as good if not better than anything else he might point out?
That is really immature and it sounds like you made a mess of it. Blocking all forms of communication like that is not very mature either. This sounds so very high-school. First love... oy!
Start dating. Take it really slow. Get to know him thoroughly. Communication is everything. Don't get physical or move in with him unless there is an engagement ring and a wedding date.
2007-08-18 15:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. Run hard and fast. Grow up a little bit and stop chasing men. Know that when you sleep with someone they might not take your emotions into consideration like you would think that they would. Go to school, take on a job, do volunteer work. Do not text and call and email guys in stalking mode, it is immature and idiotic. IF they want to be with you they will be, if not leave them alone. It is not worth sacrificing your self esteem over. Get your live revolving around your own growth and find a man that has interrests that are similar to yours. DROP HIM and leave him alone! I bet he is thinking your easy to have sex with and hard to maintain, so he will sleep with you if he can't find it somewhere else, and ignore you the rest of the time. Bet me money. As I said ....Run hard and fast and don't look back.
2007-08-18 15:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so what if he's your first love? he's not for you. he seems to be a shallow person if he will act like you've never called him. if you liked you from the bottom of his heart, he would say sorry, because its his fault. he better be faithful to you. if he really respected you, he wouldnt call that girl "sexy". and that too right in front of you. i say, leave him and find a better person.
2007-08-18 15:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by drno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is willing to treat you like this he isn't worth it and why go chasing someone who runs from you. Wait for the man who will chase you.
2007-08-18 14:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Julie G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's a dog
one of those guys that if you continued in a relationship he would mentally abuse you and make you think you are going mad. trust me.
2007-08-18 14:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by EM J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a grip and dont ever, ever, ever call him again or accept his calls. he's dogged you out and disrespected you.
2007-08-18 16:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away
2007-08-18 14:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋