My friend is helping me get a guy that i like but she is making me act like something i am not please help♥?

Answer 1

if you start the relationship off fake, it will never work out.

Answer 2

Definitely be yourself :) I remember when i liked this guy and he knew, but i acted normal and when he was around, I still acted normal. In a week, he asked me out. Don't let your friend change you. If worse comes to worse, give her a stern talkin' and tell her that its your life and you make the decisions.

The best of luck :) -Joci
p.s. remember this saying: "Women need guys as much as a fish needs a bicycle." :-)

Answer 3

Ok in my opinin you should NEVER be someone you're not. It doesn't matter how much you like a guy. If a guy is gonna like you he should like you for who you are not for what you make him think you are. If he doesn't like you for you, then it wasn't meant to be and you really are better off with out him. Why? Well think about it, if he starts talking to you or whatever because of what you're pretending to be then in the long run it will not work out because eventually the real you is bound to come out! Good Luck!

Answer 4

Then she's not doing a very good job. You're going to attract a guy that is drawn to you by your fake personality, and thats what he's going to expect. it'll blow up when the real you comes out. If thats what your friend thinks you need to do to find a guy, then quit seeking her help and find one on your own. it's better to find one as the real you, and have it take a little longer, then find one quickly, but only because your'e being fake about it.

Answer 5

When I met my girl, I was bowling. It just so happened my grandfather died that night, so I was in no condition to be anyone else but who I truely am. We spent almost every day together since then, have two college classes together, and will celebrate our year mark next month.
Be yourself, guys dont like it when girls put on a mask. It makes them wonder if they will ever be able to fully trust her as a woman.

Answer 6

Ok , first thing stop listening to you're (on this event and others like this) Be yourself if you start out your relationship fake it wont go well ,cause it wont feel right if the guy like the person you're trying to be that typically means he doesn't like you so :( . But if you be yourself and it does work out that mean he's your type and your his. If it doesnt' who cares.

Answer 7

well, if you make a guy like you by being someone your not then you're never going to be able to be yourself around him!! He's always going to expect the person that he first met! He won't love you for who you are but for who you're PRETENDING to be... so you should tell your friend that as much as you appreciate her assistance she needs let you be you and that should be good enough : ) i wish you the best of luck!

Answer 8

well suppose the guy falls for the person you are pretending to be and then one day you show your true self and he doesn't like it. are you going to pretend to be someone else through out the entire relationship?
if the guy doesn't like you for who you are tough luck, but your friend shouldn't go as far as to make yourself change for him.
unless your a quiet person and shes forcing you to be more social, thats not bad, moderate change is ok.

Answer 9

The answer is simple. Do Not be somebody you are NOT. It never works...

Besides, what happens if this guy falls for you as a result? Think about it, he'll be falling for your "character"

Answer 10

Wait, how is she "making" you? Does she have a gun to your head? Do you have no spine of your own? She controls you? Sounds like you need to get over it, be yourself, and do what you want - take care of your own business instead of letting her.

Answer 11

You should always be yourself if you want a long-lasting relationship. If the guy doesn't like you as you are then he's not worth it.