Ok , it is gonna come off as though I am a bit conceited, but I am not in any way. I have guy friends and they all fall in love with me ...they tell me this! There are about atleast 5 guys that are after me right now , all telling me that we are meant for eachother...it is getting really old and annoying. What do I about this situation?Some of them I have been friends with for 5 years + so , I dont know what to do . I still have ex boyfriends that wont leave me alone. I am going crazy!!!!!
2007-08-18 07:04:54 · 20 answers · asked by Its been a while............. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To you jerks that answered my qustions saying asshole stuff....................Just because i have guy friends does not mean that I tease them OR sleep with them.They all know that I am not interested!I have guy friends ...so what ....it doesnt mean anything. Do I sense some jealousy? Well trust me its nothing to be jealous over. I just want friends,I dont need people to be ''after'' me. If you aer gonna give me an asshole answer ,Dont answer at all.
2007-08-18 08:01:47 · update #1
Pimp. Playa.....Tell them that the Grape man is the only one for you and they are probably gonna have to wait, forever, if they don't mind waiting, then let them.
2007-08-18 07:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by AJPierzynskis' 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm going through the same thing. I feel good though! If you had no guys liking you, you would think there's something wrong with you and you would probably be stressing even more. I think you should just tell them you would rather stay as friends because you're not ready to be in a serious relationship yet and you don't want to hurt him.
2007-08-18 14:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Aileen a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep a safe distance from members of the opposite sex and try not to mislead them in any way. It could be your body language and facial expression is too inviting or you are really an attractive girl. Whichever the case, to avoid unnecessary trouble, keep a distance from close guy friends.
2007-08-18 14:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by DeleraTwinkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it can be a real problem. You will have to be firm and tell the ones you don't want a close association with to bug off. Part of the problem may be you if you are leading to many of them on. In that case you get what you ask for.
2007-08-18 14:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by dumb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you're giving these guys mixed signals suggesting that you want to be more than friends.
I've seen and experienced many girls who enjoy/crave attention from guys for self validation; this is a pretty common thing.
Its a maturity issue; you shouldn't play games with other people. I'm sorry you don't come off as conceited, but shallow.
2007-08-18 14:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean, but all you can do is be honest, you're not interested in a romantic relationship with them, but you value their friendship. Those kinds of guys really care about you and make the best of friends. They will learn to think of you more as a sister as time goes on.
2007-08-18 14:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore it, come on girl get your head in the game! you've got some much more important things to do guys at some point are just a distraction
2007-08-18 14:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give mixed signals. A simple no is good enough. Flirt even the slightest bit and thats all it takes to give them mixed signals.
2007-08-18 14:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the one you feel the same way about and tell the others to go away. Some are mainly interested in your body, not you so pick carefully.
2007-08-18 14:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a glut of men, some we see on here are looking for just one. So an embarrassment of riches. Be friendly but be careful not to send encouraging messages, Some femmes do not even realize they are sending such messages, it is just natural to them.
2007-08-18 14:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings and be honest in how you feel in your relationships is the best and only advice that I can give you. If you are always honest, you have fewer regrets later has been my observation.
2007-08-18 14:08:32 · answer #11 · answered by khrome_wind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋