well he tells me that he lovesseverytime i see him and tell he hes changed. i dont want to believe him but i beleive him. i hearthat he likes to cheat he just cant stay with one person at one time he has to have two or three. well i think that he changed but i, just goingto have to believe him. i know that he has cheated but its not my business to tell but just let me know what you think .....
2007-08-18 07:03:51 · 16 answers · asked by bigmouth69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's done it to other girls, he'll do it to you
don't waste your time
2007-08-18 07:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest. Tell a friend of yours you really trust, if they had a situation like this, they may help you. If some guy did this to me, I wouldn't believe him, because he broke my heart, and I don't expect guys cheating. I don't think he loves you, sorry. I think he just wants girlfriends, and cheat.
That isn't called true love. I suggest you two talk together about the Cheating problem or something, and be honest with him. I would truely do this. So I hope you do too!
2007-08-18 07:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are simple. They will not change their habits.
If he has a habit of cheating, it will not stop. Marriage will not stop it. STDs will not stop it. Babies will not stop it.
This guy is more than likely a predator and will say anything to get him what he wants... a roll in the hay with you. He will move on if you get clingy.
If you insist on giving him a chance, you can go out with him, but don't let him "get any" unless he can prove his fidelity OVER TIME. He probably can't keep it in his britches.
Move on and find someone else who is better for you. Don't sell yourself short.
2007-08-18 07:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while I am a bit of a cynic right now. I would not trust him. people do not change that much. I am not saying that he is not being sincere, but do not take the chance. You can date him and see how it goes, but I would expect for the worse do not let yourself get to emotionally involved and do not tell him that you love him, keep some distance. If through time he proves himself to you then you can begin to let him more into your heart
2007-08-18 07:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by ninja cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if a guy has more than one woman that he is seeing than hes a player and if you dont mind playing second fiddle to these others than best of luck. A tiger cannot change its stripes know that.
2007-08-18 07:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get heartbroken and humiliated with all your friends telling you " I hate to say I told you so" Go right ahead .But if you dont wear your heart on your cuff then dont I mean it doesnt make sense...its better to be alone than to be with bad company, trust me it would be really painful and I dont know anybody who just enters a relationship just to get heartbroken and harmed emotionally
2007-08-18 07:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by Juan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you fill but make sure he knows the second he screws around your sorry but your out of here bye bye .Have a great life and be happy and you will find Mr wright if he isn't but i hope he is
2007-08-18 07:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he tells you that why? because it works. i'll promise you he's' used it on everyone of the ones before you and will on the ones he's screwing around on you with. save yourself the heartache and don't give him another look. he has that reputation for a reason.......
2007-08-18 07:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by #1 bossman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believed that he has changed go ahead be with him. But when yo get hurt just remember that it is your ignorance that hurt you and not him.
2007-08-18 07:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Who doesn't love that "punched in the gut" feeling?? Go for it, you masochist!!(Not spelled correctly, I know, but you get the jist of it, don't you?)
2007-08-18 07:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until he shows a history of being shed of his past.
2007-08-18 07:06:58 · answer #11 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋