(aggression)...why do i get aggressive towards people i don`t like?

Question

i can only tolerate certain people for a short amount of time......i cant even "fake" that i like them..btw these are people that brag about what they have, ie,.... expensive cars, big houses,etc etc...i grew up with not a lot.....but at least i have morals.i think this is more of a rant than a `Q...thanks

Answer 1

Me 2,,,, mate, lets lose it together, and take them all out.

Mines the machine gun,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Answer 2

I would bet you still have some self-esteem issues to work out, but that will occur over time.

A part of growing up is understanding and dealing with the differences of other people.

The next time you find yourself in this type of situation, just relax. Take a couple of breaths and perhaps try asking a question or two so that you can better understand the person that is making you frustrated.

Answer 3

I don't like alot of people either, and find it hard to tolerate them. There are just so many stupid and ignorant people around.
Personally I hate the middle classes,and anyone who is a snob.But there are some really dense people in other walks of life too.
I find it impossible not to say, out loud, what I think of rude people,inconsiderate people,snobby people,etc,etc. I know it can be hard to go shopping with me! I'm going to try and just think these things in my mind instead of saying them out loud. Got to be careful I don't act something out though!!
Actually I'm moving soon,relocating completely because I hate it where I am....I hope it is at least a little better where I'm going!

Answer 4

in texas they say if you can really do it, then it aint bragging. maybe some were meant to stand out and show off a little. some girls in a beauty pagent can just make the crowd go wild. it feels good. some people hate winners.

Answer 5

me too! you usually find people who brag about having stuff have remorgaged there house 4 times to get expensive cars ect and have more debt than you, just best to ignore or yawn it allways works cause if you show youre bothered theyll think youre jealous or tell them you cant abide people who brag and call them a tosser!!

Answer 6

Quite normal but probably best if you could try to curb it. Why should you pretend you like someone if you don't? That would just make you a hypocrite. People that brag are just a pain - avoid them if you can is my advice.

Answer 7

I agree it's likely you have some issues to work on around your self-esteem. There is also a possibility that you are jealous of whatever these others have that you don't.

BUT, I think it is more likely that you are in fact a much better adjusted individual than those who feel they have to brag and who gauge themselves according to the monetary value of their possessions.

In human terms, you probably have more to be happy about.

So, just be happy! (And the aggression will disappear.)

Answer 8

Well, you are probably trying to keep them at bay. If they see
that you don't like them then they will stay away from you? There are those tho, like you named, the ones that brag and
brag etc. I know a man like that. He doesn't have anything that
wasn't given to him. He's forgotten that I guess, and he thinks
we who know him has too. Not likely! It is hard to put up with
people like that.

Answer 9

i have a pretty low tolerance when it comes to d**kheads.but i think id rather that than be fake towards them.at least people know where they stand with you.just try not to let it get to you too much!

Answer 10

Anger is not an emotion. It's a reaction. Why do you show anger to these people? My guess is it's one of two things;
1. You fear them
2. You have control issues.
You must learn to accept people for who and what they are. Tollerance is a poor substitute for acceptance.

Answer 11

basically m8 all through life you will always meet people that annoy you ,..just stick too your morals ,which money cant buy !and smile too yourself in the knowledge that you posses something they can never fully understand.:o)