My teenage sons abandoned by mother, who paid no child support, nor provided life sustaining medicine, though it was all reimbursable in her health plan, threatened and brought police, lied under oath to the court, perpetrated family violence observed by the children from the age of eight and ten, filed a law suit wanting custody. They are now 171/2 and 151/2. The court used the police force to remove the 151/2 year old, despite 18 months of superior school, community, disciplined, respectable behavior. The 151/2 year old was then slapped, scratched by mother while she was driving, almost causing two accidents as reported by him. When he went to report the abuse, he was told it was discipline. From the police station he was handed over to mother. The court split the brothers after 18 months of mother's abandonment. Both are close to each other. Both are of superior intelligence, high achievers. Three attorneys,and $40k in debt My son and I cried all day. My pay is1/2 of hers.
2007-08-18 04:53:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Yes the court system is biased against you. You are a bloke.
I have been there and done that. I have had my ex committing perjury on oath. I proved that she committed perjury with evidence to judge. Judges have no concern. I have had social workers lie in court and they would have got away with it except for a secret tape recording I made.
When you say he was handed to the mother at the police station, was there a court order?
You are better representing yourself in court. you will get better results and save a heck of a lot of money.
You probably get the feeling the courts decide exactly as the mother wishes.
My answer is learn the law, represent yourself. Go to a fathers
group to get help in representing yourself.
2007-08-18 05:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by georgebonbon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your local Department of Social Services has a Child Protective Services unit, contact them. In New York, a 13-year-old is considered competent to testify which parent he would prefer. In fact, my best friend is in a custody battle over her grand-daughter, who is just shy of 13, and her advocate considers her reliable enough to speak for herself. So far, the judge has awarded my friend full custody of the grand-daughter, and the girl has an order of protection from her mother!
2007-08-18 05:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by JelliclePat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The regulation continuously factors with the mummy so which you're scuffling with an uphill conflict from the beginning up. You and the lads could desire to maintain a mag of each occasion of abuse and violence via date with each and all of the numerous factors you could undergo in strategies. After a minimum of one month of logging, take the journals to an lawyer (attempt to get a woman so the decide would not think of male/woman - he purely sees discern against discern) and ask them to artwork out a charge plan with you. do not boost the money or the decide could think of you're merely wanting custody for the money. that's not perfect, it merely is what it fairly is. good luck.
2016-10-16 01:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish the two if you would either reconcile or just drop dead. The kids deserve a family,not something scripted from World Wrestling Foundation.
When husband and wife can't hack it any more, who gets screwed. The Kids!
2007-08-18 05:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by TedEx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't know how it is in Florida but in Ohio they would have asked children that age which parent they wanted to live with
2007-08-18 04:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by archkarat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋