who should i be with i'm so confused?

Question

i'm with the new guy now, but i cant stop thinking about my old bf of 3 years, that i broke up with a month ago and we had a big fight and stopped talking a week ago.
the things i'm confused about: why cant i stop thinking of my old bf? is it because i love him as a bf or is it just because it's been a week i didn't talk to him and i'm missing him alot since we've been friends before being gf/bf?
whats the deal with the new guy? the physical relation is so hot i cant stop it, is it going to fade away after a while? its been a month so far. i enjoy it more than my old bf but i'm afraid it's only physical. but i also think i like the way he treats me, or maybe i like the way they both treat me, i dont know which one i like more :S how would i know???

Answer 1

You love them both, dumb-butt, don't let societies little ideal about this one and only lover make you think thats true for you or any other human being on this planet, which is why your so confused. The only thing that differeates the love for these two individuals is the history you share with them, which quite frankly isn't very intense or deep, but heck its your life. But ether way because you took love so lightly your able to better spread it around and confuse the heck out of yourself because I'm more then sure you have no real purpose to your life. Just going thru the motions like everyone else, and now put your heart into a strange situation, that having a purpose would of help you get out of. Live and learn I guess, but really you need to drop both of them and spend sometime with you. Because for one, you can't just end a relationship because you say so, heart doesn't forget. Also you can't have just sex without failing in love. (Just like a tv show, ether you like it or you don't, the more you watch one you like, the more in-love with it you become, like how I love Friends, o pheebie!!!) Ether way your playing with fire for no reason whatsoever and your paying for it, congralations your just like our parents!