compromise and eventually have kids because i want?
all these make me so sad :( what would you do?
2007-08-18 02:26:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to add that alhtough all these negative things worry me, I just can't break up with him, I got so attached with him and love him. and i feel as all my world is gonna fall apart without him.
2007-08-18 04:21:27 · update #1
I hate it I m so emotionally dependent!
2007-08-18 04:22:27 · update #2
Look for someone that is more compatible to you don't waste your time life is too short and precious for even a minute to be waisted.
Your man will definitely change just not for the better.
Trust me I am not bashing all men just the one your describing. He gives men a bad name.
There is a better man for you out in the world, you have to be the one that believes that enough to search him out and drop the dead weight you have now, the "qualities" your man has you can definitely live without.
2007-08-18 02:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
Yes I think that you should move on! He say that he is willing to compromise, but when? You will be waiting on him to get ready for ever and by the time you look up too much time has passed by. You never want to be with a guy any guy who is lazy! I have been with an *** whole for 7 years and when you have been there too long it gets harder to leave. We just had a baby and all though he is a hard worker he is lazy at home and don't help out one bit! SO, while you are still free move on and pick a guy that you are compatible with all the way around. You do have the right to be picky so start picking! Good Luck :) Lift up your head stop being sad and get to moving. Take care.
2007-08-18 02:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by marolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should kick the guy to the curb. Firstly u asking this question shows that u don't have the same goals in life so y hang around and do what he wants. Do what u want or u will regret it. Secondly who wants to look after a lazy B.A.S.T.A.R.D when i think men should treat their women as princess's and spoil them rotten. And him not working won't get u close to being a princess more like a slave. Hope u use ur head and kick the f.u.c.k.e.r to the curb. all the best
2007-08-18 02:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people do things for each other out of love. Sounds like he is not as in love as you would like him to be. Maybe you should start a fresh with someone else. Maybe someone who share's the same goals and dreams out of life that you do. Not enery one is lazy with work and most guys who are not selfish want children. Good luck. Hope you find the right guy! ***
2007-08-18 02:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Laine B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bitter experience in the past tells me men don't change, & deep down, neither do women - we just cover it up better.
This sounds like a recipe for disaster to me & the fact you feel the need to ask our opinion says to me that you have some huge doubts.
Your the only one that knows the true situation, what you think & feel, but I think you need to do some serious & honest thinking & soul searching.
Personally I think I'd move on.
2007-08-18 02:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mindless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on because if he is lazy to work how are you going to get money in time if your just doing all the work? and about having children, well why not have children? it brings the relationship closer, along with marriage.
I would get rid of him out of my life forever because no man that isnt hard working is going bye bye =)
Awwww ull find somebody else
Amy xx
2007-08-18 02:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just move on ...run and run fast... if he does not want kids than any you do have from his so called compromise he will resent.... He is lazy to work and lazy in your relationship... Go find a man who will appreciate you and not one who uses you for his door mat...
2007-08-18 02:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by kev l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, lazy to work?? That one point already turn me off. If he is lazy to work, are you going to support him once you guys are married?? That's a definate no-no. Don't believe in compromise with a guy like that. You should move on... move on with a guy who deserve you better!
2007-08-18 02:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by narnia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart take a reality check, who is going to support you and any children you have with this guy when you are unable to work get shot of the lazy bugger and find a guy who will love and support you and any children you may have in the future. one thing if your guy is lazy now he will be lazy in the future leopard`s dint change their spots
2007-08-18 03:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by john h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋