Met this girl in b-school and helped her with interview prep awhile ago. Since then, she's given me mixed signals: she asked me to dinner, flirted heavily, but mentioned her BF (who lives in another city) off and on. Then, she sent me a card from spring break and suddenly acted aloof again. Then, she ignored my email when I asked her to dinner (gave a lame excuse) only to ask me to dinner again a few weeks later. I thought she was playing, so I refused. Then, a couple weeks from graduation, I asked her again (thinking she had enough time to get her s**t together in case there was anything here at all) - she said OK, and at a school party, asked me to dance with her. We were rubbing up on each other on the dance floor and she even said I'd like to get to know you. But at dinner two days later, she starts talking about her BF again, and even talked on the cell phone. Seems like a confused gal, but honestly, she's a stunner & I'm finding it hard to get her out of my mind. Help!
2007-08-18 00:31:26 · 5 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first,get it into your mind that she is playing you!
she just needed a little "action" cuz her bf isnt closeby...possibly she likes you but likes her bf too...relationships have slow seasons just like department stores...so i repeat she wanted some action on the side...
just get this into her head,put distance,and if shes really that serious about you,she'll come back to you,but single!
2007-08-18 00:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a BF then you might want to just back away. She has a problem. She sounds like a person who needs someone to fallow her around and tell her she is pretty and flirrt with. She should stop playing with your heart and either move to the city with her BF or leave you alone (and any guy for that matter) and deal with the fact hte guy who dotes on her is not with that instant.
2007-08-18 00:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Rae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious she's playing with you while she is missing her boyfriend. She is not confused at all, she knows exactly what she is doing. If you want an emotionless fling with this girl, than go for it. If you want something more, like a relationship, you aren't going to get it. Seriously, if she had an interest pursuing things with you, she wouldn't string you along as she has. Come on, she constantly talks about her boyfriend in your company and then on the phone with him in front you.
Like I said before, she isn't confused, she is playing you. Enjoy it if you want. You will most likely get an easy lay. ;)
2007-08-18 00:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Claret 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't date women who have boyfriends. You wouldn't like it and you are not going to do it. Tell her if she is single sometime in the future, then she can look you up.
Be the strong man you are and stay away from her. She is sort of playing you it sounds. She doesn't know what she wants. You don't want to be worried about if she is going to like you one day and push you away on the next. You can find someone more confident in who she is and what she wants. Don't let her looks get in the way of wanting her. You can find someone else with both qualities and who really wants you for you, and not share you.
2007-08-18 00:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my dictionary,i call that type of girl as a *****.if we love someone,we should sincere to them no matter we how far we are.just forget her and look for other girl.who knows after couple up with you she repeat the same thing again.
2007-08-18 00:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by jaya3642 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋