I am the VII of my family name and it stops here because I don't want children. My son would have been the VIII, but I cannot support a child because I don't have the income to raise him. My income and the economy is the reason. Do you think that I am right in not bringing a child into this world is a good decision, because I cannot provide for him?
2007-08-17 23:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by Boomer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it's your choice but i think it's really brave admitting to the fact you can't support him on finacal problems and not wanting him to suffer. that's really sweet.
2007-08-18 01:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by simplythao 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and no . It all depends on your age as well ,only because as you get older you kind of want one but at the same time it would take two the mother and the father to support the child. I think if you really want a child you should have it and not let anything stand in you way . It will be allot of hard work ,and i wouldn't worry about the income part of it more so the growing up of the child
2007-08-18 06:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you can't provide for a child, you should not have one. However, I wouldn't be too hasty. Your financial situation could change in time. If the only reason you are against having children (and don't forget, you could have a girl), there is no reason to say you'll NEVER have children. You could find yourself financially able to support a child and may change your mind about having children. I think you're being very smart by not having children when you can't provide for them.
2007-08-18 06:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Shelley W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is. If you truly feel and know that youaren't ready to provide for a child and give that child the support they need to grow mentally, financially, and other wise then, yes, you made a good decission.Do it when you are ready. Don't let the pressure of being the last one to continue your family name rush you into something you aren't ready for. Go to facility that would keep your stuff frozen for when you are ready, or adopt a child when you are ready, no need to rush it.
2007-08-18 06:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Admeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's a good decision, maybe when you'll be able to raise a child you'll have one.
2007-08-18 06:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by ibi_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but down the road your financial situation may change. so keep all options open. daddy
2007-08-18 07:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there are many babies born in this world, its ur decision and no one else can stop u from it,.. PICK WISELY!!
2007-08-18 06:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by answerandsave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋