I am 15 and I have been drinkg rum from my dads pantry to hide and numb my pain for many days now...I have been so downtrodden and depressed about never being able to find that special someone that I just drink my troubles away.....Lets face it..I am going down a spiraling path might as well go out with a bang...
2007-08-17 20:42:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
talk to your father, explain to him the situation. You are young there is no reason to be depressed.
2007-08-17 20:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by shammas21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My, My, My, you haven't been able to find that someone special. FOR goodness sake, You have your whole life ahead of you to find that someone special. What an excuse to drink!!! You will have more of a problem if you do not stop. Drinking is very addictive!!! and will destroy you. Get out, get into sports, finish your schooling, stop feeling sorry for yourself and go volunteer someplace, get a job, anything to get your mind off of you and onto something or someone else. I know this may sound harsh but honey I know what I am talking about I am 77 years young and have been around for a long while.
You have a great future and there will be plenty of time to find that someone special later..
You will never find someone in your frame of mind...who would want you, all depressed and a drinker???
So square your shoulders, shake off that devil who is talking you into all this and say, " This is stopping Right Now!"
2007-08-18 03:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by elptl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Dad. If you feel that you cannot tell your parents, then tell a counselor from your school or a parent of a friend that you trust. You need serious help now, the path you have chosen is self destructive and you certainly will harm yourself or others. Stop the cycle now by getting counseling for your depression.
Good luck, it took a lot of insight on your own behavior to recognize that you are doing something that is not normal and getting help would be the next logical step.
2007-08-18 03:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky Raccoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is called an escape, from your 'problems'..but the ;problem; is, that now you are creating a worse one for yourself if you don't stop..been there, done that...mine is gambling..I love to gamble at the casinos,..because when I am there, i forget everything...You are going down a path, healthwise, and financially and no one wants a drunk...you must stop this now,..get a hold of yourself, and find some new interests, and along the way, you just might find some new person in your life..don't worry, let them find you sweetie..but don't become an alchoholic, that ain't gonna solve anything
2007-08-18 07:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to want a special someone. Make friends with good people, even one friend is a treasure to have. Booze is a downhill way to go. If your story is true, you're probably depressed about something else. Have you tried telling your trouble to God? He is never too busy and He loves everyone. He loves you!
2007-08-18 04:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about how you feel, see your school counselor, and stop the booze. You're only going to stunt your development, kill your liver, and a few brain cells while your at it. Thats a quick way to take a lot of years off your life.
2007-08-18 03:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by napervillecentral 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some people here have given you terrible answers and not taken your feelings seriously and what you're doing is how many alcoholics start out. Please seek out a therapist. If someone you know has a drinking problem, check out ala teen. If you have a good relationship with your parents, talk to them!
2007-08-18 05:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Nancie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol is a depressant! quit ur drinking and get a new hobby to let out ur pain. talking to a friend (points to self) is a good way :D
2007-08-18 19:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by em0grl4evah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please. your 15 years old. you shuoldnt be looking for a "special someone". come on now, sorry to be harsh but it sounds like a melodramatic situation.
BTW my dad has been a heavy alcoholoc for YEARS and is still okay. so your "downward spiral" has a LOOOONG way to go.
2007-08-18 03:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahaha.....teenage angst is what that is.....stop wallowing in self pity and self indulgent and wake up to yourself....all your family and friend could be dead and you could be in the midst of a war....be happy for what you have.,
2007-08-18 03:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋