Who is real mom (mother)?

Question

Giving birth to a Baby? Or something else?

Answer 1

giving birth to a baby DOES NOT make you a mom. my (step) daughter is MY daughter. Her mom is a loser. She only has her 2 or 3 nights a week.

Answer 2

Your question should contain more details as to what exactly you are wanting to know.

The one giving birth to a baby is of course the mother. If she abandons her child she is a bad mother, a cruel mother etc., but never the less she is still the mother of that child.

Through adoption a woman can be an adoptive mother. Not just "something else" like you have stated.

Answer 3

it is kinda of funny reading these answers. a mother, a parent, it does not make a difference, because there are so many different aspects to people. Your mother can be your aunt or older sister. Neither one of them birth you nor neither one of them raised you, but they can be there to nurture you and approve of you at a time that you need them there. many woman give birth to a child but there are so many who leave the child behind and come back years later and demand to be called mom. ( sad). I have three children now in my home. Who can sometimes see ther mothers on a daily bases and never receive one ounce of nurturing. nor even concern about there day. they are 9,9 and 7 yes i raise them as my children but there is one thing they have learn to accept as well as my self. I can never take the place of there mothers but our reality is I am the mother that God has given to them right now, and so right now i love being a mom the second time around.And my secret prayer is when their mothers come around I hope that I have stood in the gap where they are able to practice acceptance and stand in the light of their ( the Children) integrity that they naturally have, and that their mothers will be proud of who they are. Even if their mothers are not. proud I am proud of them.

Answer 4

well, if the mother gave birth to the baby AND is raising it, then THAT would be the "real" mother. But, if the woman who gives birth IS NOT raising the baby, then she is simply the birth mother and whoever raises the child is the "real" mother, IMO.

Answer 5

the real mother is the woman that take care a baby and give to him what ever a kid need until the time will be able to take the life at his hand, a mother is not the women that born a kid and leave him but the women that make that kid a grown up and responsible person

Answer 6

hey there are two typer of mother !!

1= who gives birth to a child
2=who bring up the child with care ! (foster mother )

both have the equal status and respect !and are called mother and there is nothing like real and fake !!=)

i think u will explained well by this brief explanation !! n i hope it helps tc

Answer 7

Any female can give birth..the mom is the person that is always there for you no matter what..be she the birth mother adoptive mother, aunt, grandma, sister or a good friend.

Answer 8

Physically, yes, it means the person who gave brith to the baby. But need not necessarilymean just the lady who gave birth. I believe anybody who can nurture & love unconditionally would be a real mom.

Answer 9

Respected Brothers: and sisters
The Real Answer is ( Who is giving birth she is the real mother)
The Mother means which is giving birth a child; she is only mother for that child only. ( We are saying Mother therissa: what is the mean of therissa i dont know may be good name) If any women adopted any child she is not mother for him. ( Some holy books saying after death on judgement day the god will call the people by his/her mother not by father. ) suppose if you adopt any child the god will call by her/his mothers name but the adoption parentss will get all benefits from his/her good activities.only for recognisation god will call by mother. because only mothers know very well the child by whome. ) My friends in every where there is special respect for mother. Mother is mother. In some cases we found child as orfan ; so we dont know who is the mother who is the father may be that child born by illegal in that case that mother throughing the child on the street afraid by society: regarding this matter only god knows who is mother for child: When orphan child dead the judgement day the god call to his mother infront of him then she call to his father. ( All holy books giving first prefference to mother ; becoz mother after pregnance she hold the child in her utras about nine months. (if it is legal or illegal) no body knows when child in utras what kind of turnings and what kind movements inside axcept mother and god. so my friends dont ignore to serve mother.
I am sorry my english so poor try to understand my language.


thanks
badar

Answer 10

A mom can be an adoptive mother, foster mother, grandparent, aunt, or other guardian. A mother is someone that has deep love for the child and who is willing and capable to take care of him/her.